One month commitment... Will you go for it... women only...

@alexigne (903)
Philippines
March 28, 2008 12:40am CST
Hi there...I just want to know other mylotters opinion... If someone's courting you and you decide to be his boyfriend for one month... Will you do so for a following condition... 1.No love will attach.. Tell her that don't love me... 2.one month commitment only and no extension... 3. You and him only know about the relationship... 4.No third party involve because his gonna be your only one... Will you go for it??? and if you say yes and as time passes by... you were getting fall in love with him.. will you stop yourself because of the contract relationship or let your self fall in love with him deeply???
4 responses
• United States
28 Mar 08
I wouldn't do it. I refuse to limit myself in any relationship. I prefer to let life happen as it will. If I end up having no attraction whatsoever, why would I want to waste a month on it and do things I wouldn't want to? If I fall in love with him, why would I want to not only cause myself the pain when he left, but possibly deny myself of what could be a lifetime love? It's not worth it.
@alexigne (903)
• Philippines
28 Mar 08
I definitely agree on that sense... But my point is what if you were caught in that situation??? as i can read... you were not going to do so... If there no chance for you to face that situation... what advice can you give for those who are facing this wrong decision even the reason is their afraid to get hurt and their pride dictates their decision... What words can make them realize what they have to do.. Just an advice.. if they listen thank you... if not its okey.. its your life still...
• United States
28 Mar 08
There is no "have to do". It's a personal decision. If she wants to do it, that's her deal, you don't need to meddle. Nor is there a "caught in the situation". You can't be forced to date someone for a month. You ALWAYS have a choice. I would choose not to do it. Period. I wouldn't do it. It's not worth it.
@alexigne (903)
• Philippines
28 Mar 08
I guess you didn't get my point or you can't give an advice. Yes it was a true to life story and looking for some opinion. Nevermind...
• Kuwait
2 Apr 08
for me now,, im always into a serious relationships, and will not going to gamble my hurt just to say to be someone in few times only. love is not a game that you can just back out and never hurt at all.
@alexigne (903)
• Philippines
3 Apr 08
Yes that would be the best thing that you can do, because no matter how painful the consequences of your decision, it was still your decision and stand for it. On her situation, she was already there and fall in love, now confuse if she will continue it or face the reality that the man will cause pain to her. It was pessimistic point of view but that's how she handle it now. I just want to look more opinion regarding this and might be helpful for her to realize how to handle the situation and be brave enough to go on and don't just push the man she love away from her whatever the consequences is.
@subha12 (18453)
• India
28 Mar 08
no, never i can go for such committment. i know some girls who like thsoe time pass. i am not at all in time pass mode. I just hate it.
@alexigne (903)
• Philippines
28 Mar 08
So what will you advice for those women who caught in this situation??? I don't mean to misjudge their decision but to help them realize and how to face and solve it...
@martgin (55)
• Philippines
28 Mar 08
ow?regarding relationship.....this is no control it if you mature it doing good the relationship to grow up at that end going forward planning about married. If you love someone no limitation.... you love the character he is or she is..... so be careful to having a relationships
@alexigne (903)
• Philippines
28 Mar 08
I'm just curious what if it happens to you or what can you advice for people who are caught in this situation... Teenagers and even at the age of 20's are sometimes impulsive... Some are afraid to be hurt and hurt others that may cause for wrong decision like this... What if during your younger days, it happen that you were in this situation , will you go for it or just do what you say that the relationship will end for one month... I mean you were in a relationship already and one month will expire... You already love him accidentally... will continue and take the risk or you may think that the guy might think that you were playing the fire and did not know that you love him already and be afraid to be hurt by him and will lead you to end the relationship... Believe me even we say that be careful when it comes to relationships... there are still cases like this.. So what will you say now??