Have you ever been dumped out of a relationship?

@ESKARENA1 (18299)
March 30, 2008 6:15am CST
There are many ways out of a relationship, I tend to be the one getting dumped. It doesnt seem to matter what I do, sooner of later someone decides its time to get out. Well im not complaining, just wondering whats the most inventive way you have been dumped, or are you the dumper?
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31 Mar 08
yes this is the problem with online relationships untill they become real and physical we can all only take so much of putting up with peoples ways. why not try again but have a real relationship this time? did she really dump you or was it a bit of both sides giving up? Maybe she dumped you because it was a one way relationship, look back, take her feelings into concideration i'm sure if something is worth having its worth working for. tc blessed be 831
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
31 Mar 08
wow there you are, good to see you found time for me. Always a pleasure to see you. You know? i have looked at this thing all ways up, i just think she wasnt ready to give what a true relationship costs blessed be
31 Mar 08
maybe so or perhaps your not prepared to give a little more yourself. still if thats how you feel then so be it tc
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
31 Mar 08
copuldnt give much more without anything coming back, anyway i was the one that got dumped
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
30 Mar 08
I have been dumoed several times. When I dated someone, I wanted to be with them for a very long time but they never had that in their mind at all. It didn't matter what I did either. They would use me and get what they wanted or needed and kick me to the curb and act like we never knew each other. They didn't even want to be my friend anymore. I have never been the dumping type of person but I have had to break off a couple of relationships just because it was never going to work out. I was dumped when I finally seen with my own two eyes that my 3 year boyfirend, was in fact cheating on me with another girl and her mother. Now, how gross is that? He kept telling me I was crazy. I knew he was cheating the whole time but never could catch him until then and I also found pictures.
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
30 Mar 08
I have been dumped but it seems she wanted to make my life hell first. She wanted to have me there for her when she wanted me but for me to disappear when someone more interesting came along. I put up with it but eventually, she dumped me
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
30 Mar 08
I have been through situations like that also. they will use me and keep me around until they feel froggy to move on to someone else that will give them the time of day that they are more interested in. If that doesn't work out totally for them, then i am to be available when they decide to return, and the worst thing is, I am always there for them. I get in a relationship for the long haul. I don't just waste my time and move on to the next person. I tried to make the relationship last but they loved to cheat on me and I would stick around too and take it and then they would finally dump me in the end when they finally got what they were seeking the whole time behind my back.
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@derek_a (10902)
30 Mar 08
I have been dumped way back in my teens. The first one was most painful, but kinder. The girl I had a date with and had been dating for 3/4 months just didn't bother turning up and then just said on the telephone that she felt our relationship was going nowhere and that was it. The second one, didn't seem to know what she wanted and one minute our relationship was on, the next it was off. This tended to keep me on quite a painful hook.
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
30 Mar 08
I dont think it can ever be nice and i think it can be a method that disfunctional individuals use to hurt others
• India
30 Mar 08
Yeah i have been dumped out of relationshipd often. I am the one who like you thinks that now this is the guy and we r gonna b forever 2gether.But i donno y i just get dumped. They say i m too emotional and attached , y i cant c anything wrong with that, any ways, but i am married and content with my present relationship...
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@rb200406 (1825)
• India
2 May 08
Actually i have never thought about it.I never realised whether i have been dumped any time.I have to think.but definitely i am not the one who dumps.
@nilanym (184)
• Philippines
31 Mar 08
Nope, I haven't been dumped. I'm the one who will make the first move to break the relationship if I feel that there is no more sparks. That was during my high school days. Now, I am happily married to my one and only husband and our relationship still is strong.
@subha12 (18453)
• India
31 Mar 08
I had never been in relationship till now. but i think it was about sometime back that someone proposed me and i rejected. now i think i did right as the person should have surely dumped me if i had accepted him. he was trying to cheat me as he already had a GF.
@ellie333 (21029)
31 Mar 08
I think everyone knows deep down when a relationship isn't working whether it is a friendship or a partner situation. I have been both the dumped and the dumper. In fact when I moved away from the area I had grown up in I suddenly no longer served a purpose to one 'friend' a. she had no-one to pick her children up from school, b. she no longer had a babysitter and c. when she did visit I wasn't a convienent holiday home as I was running my own ironing business and I said before she arrived you can only stay until the Monday as I cannot risk having the little ones around the irons. She didn't like this at all even though I had not booked work in for the five days she and her five children were there for. After 25 years of knowing her I actually felt relived rather than upset so it had run its course. My last relationship I ended as we had become more friends than lovers and I just didn't feel anything more towards him. He had also not done anything wrong but it was the things he didn't do if that makes sense. He was very thoughtless towards my feelings and even though I openly discussed and tried to make things work I knew deep down nothing was gonna change. Ellie :D
@marababe (2513)
• Philippines
31 Mar 08
Hi eskarena! :) I've only been in 2 serious relationships. The first one, I was the dumper and then the second one, I became the "dumpee". It sucks. Cos he dumped me friday night but the whole week and the rest of Friday was an ok day for us. That's why I was shocked when after he dropped me home he sent me a message saying he wants out. Great, huh?
@arkaf61 (10882)
• Canada
30 Mar 08
I've had my share of both. But I think I felt as bad for dumping as for being dumped. Im any case there was never any dumping from either part that made any special damage. I guess it would more if it was to happen now.
@queenofarms (1665)
• United States
30 Mar 08
I have been dumped for not sleeping with them,find another,I was to caring,my parents strict rules and he fail out of love. I think I only dumped one person. That was because he was too pushy.