how can you

March 30, 2008 5:57pm CST
how can you stop loving someone, if you know they don't love you, maybe don't even care about you, if that is not enough to make you stop loving them what can you do?
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@reeseyj (906)
• United States
8 Apr 08
Hey dummy, You didnt think to ask me this question. This is what you do. You change the way you look at him. You look at all the nagatives and the things he does that you do not like and pretty soon you will get disgusted. You also should keep busy and see other people. Come on sis we need to get married here. Oscar where are you, lol. The fact that someone doesnt interact with your kids or treats them badly should be enough negatives to leave, your kids are you, look at you and his kids how do you feel about them, so how could he not feel for your kids that way. Love ya.
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@reeseyj (906)
• United States
8 Apr 08
Hey just stare at his dirty underwear.
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10 Apr 08
Thanks brat but he has no dirty underwear
• Malaysia
30 Mar 08
its impossible to stop loving someone unless we had someone/something to do to replace him/her. =) that's what always happen to me. Well, it depends on individual priorities...
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31 Mar 08
you are right once you love someone you will always love them that is the rules to real love, and I do need to start making myself first priority
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@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
30 Mar 08
I think the only way is to replace that love with someone else, other than that you can not control that feeling, it is an inner thing, one of the many emotions you can't control so it is best to just try and love someone else, it doesn't always work but you can only try, or love in silence.
30 Mar 08
Thanks I am trying to change everything about what I do and my bad habits and he is one of them it is just so hard, thank you
5 Apr 08
you are a lovely person. Dont give this man the power to hurt you again. Be strong and do your best to stay away from him. He doesnt deserve you and you will meet somebody much better. i know you are hurting but you mustnt blame yourself. if you need somebody to talk to ill be happy to listen. a problem shared and all that ...
@jesbellaine (4157)
• Philippines
4 Apr 08
If you are really sure the person doesn't love you back then I guess the best way to do is to find a way on how you will be able to move on without that person. First, think of the other things that you really LOVE to do when you don't know him yet... maybe.. maybe.. you can try the old things and stuff that you love doing before you started loving that person Second, think all of your friends and family who want to see you smile everyday... Go out and have time with them. I am sure that they will listen to you and give you warm hugs if you need one... most of the times, talking to families and friends about that person will lessen the burden or pain that you are feeling inside. Last but no the LEAST, think of God... and remember this saying::: "If the relationship is meant for you, GOD will make a way to make it happen, no matter what".. Hope in your next post, you will be happy :)
@grace24 (1050)
• Philippines
9 May 08
Its hard to do because its hard to teach the heart to stop loving him...there was just a time that you will forget your feelings for him. Its hard to forget someone that you really love...
@myxymica (43)
• Philippines
9 May 08
it's a hard hard thing, but it's just a matter of acceptance.