Are you satisfied with your appearance?

China
April 1, 2008 1:48am CST
Most of my friends do not satisfied with their appearance,you know, "My head is too big." "My nose is too wide." "I am too fat"...... Actually, I am not a big beauty,however, in most positions,I do have confidence in my appearance since I am an optimistic girl,friends around me love me so.But sometimes, I do feel depressed whenever a really pretty girl standing next to me. You know,she is the one who attracts the most attentions,and for me, I am just a lovely girl. So,what about you? Are you always satisfied with your appearance?
7 responses
@manya_pearl (1905)
• Singapore
1 Apr 08
For me, i'm not too satisfy with my body only, i think i'm too thin. But some said i'm slim.. but actually i really wanna gain weight. ahahah. Some friends told me, they were jealous that my body is slim so its easy to find good clothes for me... yeah i admit that, but i think my body is thin... only that. The rest, i love my physical appearance... and especially my eyes, and my hairstyle now... hehehe have a nice day!
@paulsy (1264)
• Philippines
1 Apr 08
Just like you, I am so thin. My weight ranges from 92-95lbs. I really wish I could easily gain weight like other people do. But people around me tell me that I look just fine, and that I should be satisfied with my weight. Inspite of that, I'm still trying my best to gain a little bit more. I really don't want to be stout, though. But I thing having a little bit more wouldn't look so bad.
• China
1 Apr 08
I think you are lucky to be slim! Keep in shape!
• Indonesia
2 Apr 08
ah, you are very lucky to be slim!!! compare with me. I am too tiny and also fat. So sometimes people always joke on me that I am like a ball :-(. I am trying to diet and make some exercise but it's not useful. Maybe I am not too serious to do that so, I am still fat. Honestly, I don't like my body right, but to make some exercise I am so lazy. So, I have to be what I am right now.
@sexyjo (69)
• Trinidad And Tobago
4 Apr 08
beauty is in the eye of the beholder. at times i am satisfy with my appearance and at times i am not , i'm like a on and off button,. i grew up with people telling me that my sister is prettier than me , i thank GOD every day, but there is always the question why? people tell me that i am attracted , but when i look in the mirror i personally don't see it. i to get depress and when i do , i lock myself in my room. i am not fat but i wish i was thinner , but if get to thin there goes my figure :), hey it's better to be the optimistic ,loving girl and i am sure you attract but some how you don't take notice , every one is unique in there own way ,
• China
5 Apr 08
Thanks!Being optimistic and loving do make one attactive!
@Elixiress (3893)
10 May 08
I am neutral, I have some up days and some down days. Everyone has their good features and bad features.
@cream97 (29169)
• United States
2 May 08
Yes and no. I love who I am, not just what I have become.
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
not rily, they say i look good but whenever i look in the mirror,, i just don't like wat i see,, maybe i'm just not satisfied and maybe i'm envy because i'm not as pretty as marian rivera or thalia haha
@yesido (1)
• China
2 Apr 08
I am not satisfied with my appearance.Altho someone around me saying that I should not be care about it,each women loves of beauty,not expect me.
• United States
2 Apr 08
I'm 26. By now, I have come to accept most of how I look like. But it was not a very easy process. There was a time when I wanted to be whiter, taller. And there was a time when I had dreamed I played basketball better and had more head-turner looks. It was true especially during my adolescent years. Not to mention, my face had a lot of acnes, I now have deep scars all over. That is particularly not easy for me to accept and deal with. I mean, our face is the one we keep afront people, and it's like, our basic packaging. So I guess, I spent a very serious time in accepting the way I now look, while doing something to improve it once in a while. I think there is a sense in saying we have to look inside us to see how beautiful or handsome God has made us to be. I think there is a sense in believing that what lies underneath is something that we must all the more cultivate. I think there is a sense in claiming that what is essential is invisible in the eyes. It may help to remember that our inner disposition of optimism and candidness to face what we don't like about ourselves will always put us back on track. There is a lot more truth in the goodness that we can do to our neighbors than impressing them with how we looked like.