Where have they gone?

Philippines
April 2, 2008 10:58am CST
I have about twenty pages of friends listed in my myLot friends. Only around one-fourth of them are still active here at myLot and another one-fourth (more or less) log in rarely. The rest? Well, I have not really read from them for quite a long time now. I am just wondering... Have they quited myLot? Are they very busy to log into their myLot accounts? Have they moved to another site in pursuit of greener pastures?
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5 responses
@paid2write (5202)
2 Apr 08
I have noticed a nummber of my friends still have a very low post count so they must have asked to be my friend as soon as they joined but have not stayed active at myLot. Perhaps they thought it would be a good place to promote their link and when they found they got no responses they left. Other people go because they see only a few cents in their earnings after a few days. As I want to give encouragement to new members I will accept them as a friend from the start. It's up to them if they decide to leave or can't be bothered with myLot.
• Philippines
2 Apr 08
It's sad that people go inactive just because they get disappointed with the amount of money they earn here at myLot. I hope they also appreciate the learnings they could get from here...
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@myklj999 (18195)
2 Apr 08
I think some people get frustrated at their discussions being deleted, or can't handle the criticism of other posters who reply to them, so they don't return. I have become picky about whom I choose as friends here. At times I get a little disgusted and take a break for a few months, but I always come back because there are people here I enjoy hearing from.
• Philippines
2 Apr 08
I really do miss some of those that I frequently respond to. They used to be very active in terms of posting new discussions as well as responding to discussions. Now, they are gone...
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@minnie_98214 (10573)
• United States
2 Apr 08
Yeah I just went thru and deleted a bunch of my friends that werent very active. Some people seem to think its not worth the little money. I enjoy it so im here to stay.
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• Philippines
2 Apr 08
I have not deleted anyone yet but I am considering that... I agree with you. Some people, especially my friends whom I have introduced to myLot, think it is not worth the little money so they just went inactive.
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• United States
2 Apr 08
This is why I don't add every person that requests a friendship with me here. Some people just end up pootering out after a while of being with MyLot. They come here because its free money, then they leave because they don't get the hang of it, or make much. When I get friend request, I see how much they have posted, in both discussions and responses, and see if their discussions interest me. I have had a few pooter out, but not many, and I feel it is due to the process I undergo before adding a person as a friend.
• Philippines
2 Apr 08
I think I should do the same strategy you have... Thank you my friend!
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@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
2 Apr 08
i am thinking about that too. two of my friends here at mylot are real life friends of mine and they are both soooooooo busy. one with her 11 month old babay and the other was so busy with her work. when she gets home her husband is the one using the coomputer so she would rather take a rest than wait for him to finish. but the others who are my mylot friends maybe has the same reason. it is either they are to busy with toodlers or busy with carreers.
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