Can you honestly say that you are a good and fair person,or?

@jidesh (283)
Canada
April 2, 2008 4:45pm CST
Well I do try to be fair and honest, but being human I sometimes err, but at least I try. Can you honestly say that you are a good and fair person,or?
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@eseomame (1146)
• United States
13 Apr 08
Yes, I can honestly say that, but as someone mentioned above, I may err at times however I know that when i'm conscious of myself, I try to be the fairest I can be especially by putting myself in others shoes.
• Egypt
12 Apr 08
I dare all of you to wish for someone other than urselves to be more attractive than you, you do know as i know that each one of you wants to be better, cuter, smarter, more succeful and if you were to compete with each other each one of you will want to win! Now don't tell me that it is fair for someone to be cute when the other is not and don't tell me that it is fair for someone to be smart when the other is not and don't tell me that it is out of goodness that we do all the good things we do! because the truth is, even when we do something good it's out of self love! you love your selves and you want to show the world that you deserve to be loved and you know that in order for you to be loved you need to show some goodness! The fact is we are not even replying to this post because we want to help Jidesh which is a total stranger to us get answers to his question we are replying to his question because it makes us feel good to prove that we have something to say and what makes it better is that what we have to say here concerns us! don't we just love talking about ourselves! isn't it satisfying! Tell me really where is the goodness in all of this and where is the fairness when we are sitting on our butts enjoying light descussions over the internet while there are others out there being burned to the bones! Fairness and goodness my friends are too big for us and too expensive im afraid very few can afford to adopt them. I myself honestly admit that i am not sure i am a good and fair person i am not even sure if im trying to be a good and fair person but what im sure of is that the only thing i can afford from time to time is a little bit of honesty! If what im saying sounds hardcore for you then guess what, life isn't exactly a soft song and the truth about mankind can't be any less harsher! Think about it the word ''fair'' does not go with the words ''better'' and ''winning'' it can only go with the word ''even'' and i dare you to stop wanting to win or to be better! Im not saying that goodness and fairness are impossible but they indeed don't come naturally it requires hardship and one big long battle with one's very own self to attain such noble qualities. And don't you ever consider mentioning love and the good things that are done out love because love takes place beyond good and evil! which makes it irrelevant to the subject.
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
12 Apr 08
no one's perfect so i think i'm a fair person
@Breath (1297)
• United States
2 Apr 08
I believe my self to be honest up front and open.I never lie to my friends.I will tell everyone the truth in a way trying not to hurt them.It hurts me if I think I hurt someone.
@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
12 Apr 08
I could say I am fair person. I think my friends and colleagues can prove it. When other people, while wanting to achieve their goal are trying hard to reach them at the expense of other people around, I will never do that. Because I know someday we will pay for it. So its better to be a fair person all the time.
• Estonia
10 Apr 08
I try to be honest and fair with my friends because thats all i have in my life . With everyone esle .. well .. im trying ...
• United States
2 Apr 08
Yes, I'm a fair person for the most part. I also try to be as non-judgemental as possible.