How do you deal with heartache?

Heartache is never easy but sometimes it is fun. There might be some enjoyment to be gained by being hearbroken. I used to have heartaches before but I quickly learned it is more fun not to allow your heart to be broken. Surrendering your heart and emotions to another is a sure way to get your heart broken and this is one lesson I am determined not to forget.

My very first break-up was certainly the most painful heartache I ever had. Good thing my family was there to help and take care of me. I actually didn't tell them the specifics of the break up, I just remember waking up early, and saw my dad. He was puzzled why I was awake that early, and when I went to him and hugged him, he knew what just happened. I didn't spoke a word, yet he said to me "Life's like that - breakups are inevitable." I guess for him to know exactly what I am going through helped a lot in coping up. Like I said, I didn't tell the specifics, but my family made sure I eat well, and I won't be alone physically - or else I'd cry and cry. So happy to have my family around!

if it was years that has passed by, i guess i would have totally forgotten that pain.. maybe remember the person... but not the pain. i have not been through such a terrible heartache... but i guess if it did occur to me, i would have spend my times sulking at a time, pour my heart out, and then move on by going out with friends, spending time with other people who can help me forget about the heart ache.