Fall in love at the first sight,do you believe that?

@gxnfly (1147)
China
April 5, 2008 10:09pm CST
It's hard for me to say that I believ in falling lave at the fist sight.I think it only happens on the, TV Movies or something or in a fiction.But I think the feelings must be very good falling love at the first sight.You meet a guy,fall in love,and that will be it,you will spend the rest of your life together. I can say I believed it once.I met this guy,and he was really great and we kissed the next day we met.I thought I found my MR.Right in my life.But I was so wrong,our relationship lasted less than a month.Now I hope I will never see him in my life. Yes,love is romantic,it don't need to much senses.But love at first sight,I doubt.We barely know someone at the firt the first sight.To some degree,it's kind of dangerous.Who knows that guy is not a bad guy?
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24 responses
• United States
6 Apr 08
I fell in love at first sight. I was playing on the internet one night and found a picture of a man and fell absolutely in love with him. I read about him on his profile, e-mailed him, and chatted with him for about 7 months before I met him in person. That was just over four years ago. We're getting married in 7 weeks.
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@tessah (6621)
• United States
7 Apr 08
grats cookie!
• United States
7 Apr 08
Thanks ^_^
@zsxdcf (50)
• China
6 Apr 08
many years ago,I believe it,but now,I think it's too few to meet.
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@sisco100 (2345)
• United States
6 Apr 08
yes i do, but i dosent happen to me anymore cuz i've learned to look beyond the way a girl looks, my mind wont let it happen. i have to tallk to the girl and get to know her before i can even look at her as a possible date or anything other then a friend. for some reason i have tht ablity in the movie shollow hal, but i can see wht the person really looks like, my version dont allow me notice some one, i've notice tht when i get to know a girl thts when i notice how beautiful they really are. i'm a guy tht is attracted to the personality the most with out tht u have no chance with me as far as a relationship, i might sleep with u, or maybe be ur friend but thts it.
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@madlees (1381)
• India
6 Apr 08
No you can never fall in love on first sight.It is actually possible to. You may like the person on first sight, I think you have to get to know a person to fall in love. If you fall in love it is for the life times. If you cannot sustain that freindship for more than a month say, it is not love, sometimes it is called lust, sometimes it is called hero worship etc. In our teens we meet great guys for th first time. It is our adolescent age which makes us think it is love. That is why it is also called puppy love. You have to be mature when you fall in love say above 20-21 at least. Only then you can decide who is good and if you can live with him / her for the life time, etc.. So All the best to you dear.
@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Apr 08
i don't believe love at first sight. meaybe you misinterpret your feelings. the correct word for that is admire or crush. love is a long process not only a few seconds or minutes. most of the relationship that start with love at first sight failed to survive. it is only for fun not for love affection.
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• United States
6 Apr 08
i did believe in love at first site when i was in my teen years now that im older not so much. i realy dont know why i think that way now.
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• United States
3 May 08
with ma first love i felt like it was i fell hard quickly it was like bam really mayb it was jus pure attraction lust
@subha12 (18453)
• India
7 Apr 08
I think i do not believe in love at first site. i think its not so easy to fall in love at first site. you may like the person, but falling in love has some other factors also.It should take some time and knowing the person well.
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
7 Apr 08
I Dun believe so much in that now.. Most likely i will thinnk that it's due to inflatuation or maybe just have good feelings for that person at the particular time.. But it's definitely not love ^_^
@tessah (6621)
• United States
7 Apr 08
i beleive in it.. fact, i fell in love without sight. i met a man in an aol chat room, and fell insanely in love with him, and he with me.. 5 days later he moved in with me, and i didnt know what he looked like until he was moving his things into my house (he didnt have a pic to share) we just celebrated our 9th anniversary.. and following my heart was the best thing ive ever done.
@winterose (39918)
• Canada
7 Apr 08
yes you can fall in love at first sight, I have and I am 53 years old, it doesn't happen to everyone or ever time you meet a guy but it can happen as it happened for me and my partner.
• India
6 Apr 08
Love happens and is not something that is something that you can't keep it planned in your list of to-do things.The very essence of love is that it's spontaneous and carefree and that it happens at the most unconceivable of situations.I agree that you should not trust people so easily and you might just be hurt.Trust is something you can work on later after you get to spend time with him/her,so make sure you plan your dates in public places and when the intimacy grow you can decide that trust is indeed genuine.Love does happens at first sight for people who believe in it and I feel that they really are lucky cos they have something in them they have no inhibitions about,They do not mind their heart,it';s free to do and feel as it pleases.That is what love is,free and independent.
• India
6 Apr 08
ya it's true at teen age such thing happens Fall in love at first sight but now i am bit mature & do not believe love at first sight .At maturity it will be Attraction at first sight
@itsmepinky (1301)
• India
6 Apr 08
i do not believe in love at first sight. I think it is quite silly. It might just be an infatuation or a crush or a fling which is very common nowadays. BUt falling in love at first sight sounds a little stupid to me ~pinks~
• Australia
6 Apr 08
No and if someone claims that they have, then it's probably just infatuation because how can you fall in love with someone who you have never spoken to and have never interacted with. If you do, then it's your just falling in love with what the eyes are seeing and nothing more...
@jidesh (283)
• Canada
6 Apr 08
Love at first sight, definitely not. What makes love real is knowing another person, both their strengths and their flaws, and loving them completely for the person they are. At first sight you can be attracted to someone, lustful for them, or even have instant chemistry with them, but you can't love them. I don't think it's fair to say that what some people call love at first sight is a strictly physical attraction, because you can have a strong chemistry with a person right away without their being an exceptionally physically attractive person, but this chemistry still isn't love.
6 Apr 08
I,m not sure i believe in love at first sight, i think it,s more likely lust at first sight.
@roxanne271 (2035)
• Trinidad And Tobago
6 Apr 08
I believe in love at first sight. When I first saw my current boyfriend I immediately felt a connection with him and couldn't stop thinking about him since that moment. It's a good thing we exchanged phone numbers lol. We didn't get together right away. He used to call me everyday and we went out for about a month before we got together. The phone convos proved useful because alot of times we would be talking about ourselves and family life, etc. We did go through a rough patch in our relationship but that has only made us stronger now and up to this day, I always tell him...I really don;t know what made me like you instantly...that's not like me.
@nyumix (1661)
• Belgium
6 Apr 08
Yes, I do believe that can happen. But it does not mean that he or she will be the perfect match or you both will be a perfect couple even you fall in love.
@ebberts (786)
• United States
6 Apr 08
I don't know if I loved my husband at first sight, but it didn't take long. we dated less than a month and were married. We will have been married 30 years on the 21st of may this year. Still in love here.