Would you consider to go back to your ex if your child wants you to?

@ellie26 (4128)
Malaysia
April 7, 2008 6:46am CST
Many of us would say goodbye after being cheated on. We have to end the relationship because we were hurt so deeply. No longer trust in the relationship. But what if there are children involved? Would you think about them first or would you tell them why you have to end the relationship? Would you consider going back to your spouse/partner/ex if you child/children ask you to? Share your thoughts.
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@busta1baby (1238)
• United States
21 Apr 08
ummm im not really sure to be honest with u...
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@ellie26 (4128)
• Malaysia
22 Apr 08
Sometimes it is hard to make a decision when one love their kid so much and doesn't want to hurt their feelings. Its either we sacrifice our own feelings or theirs.
@lynboobsy11 (11346)
• Philippines
7 Apr 08
For them well it depends....I choose to separate with him the first time without the concerns of my kids and if that time comes my children ask me to be with there father again for the sake of them....maybe It depends on how we are having now as a relationship. I don't sacrifice my feelings just because my children wants too. It is hard to pretend that I like to be with their father and pretend that I can show that I like him too. It is better to say yes if it's true..
@cherriemae (3374)
• Philippines
7 Apr 08
i cant really tell because it's been so long since my ex boyfriend left me, actually us with my daughter..i was 3mos pregnant then, and it's so painful to me and i really hate him so much..maybe, when the time comes when he will come back and if things will get fine between us, maybe i will accept him considering that he's still the father of my baby..
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@subha12 (18453)
• India
7 Apr 08
it is really a tricky question. when you are hurt its raelly hard to go back to that person. I am still no in that position. But i guess sometimes it should be very clear abbout what is the way you want it. do you go back to chaeer for sake of children? Make the children understand that the future can be worse.
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• Australia
22 Apr 08
It really depends on the reason why we broke up in the first plaace. I would personally not go back if i think I would not be happy.If I am not happy in a relationship I cannot make the child happy