why are men not attracted to nice women.

India
April 9, 2008 2:31pm CST
why do men always fall for the fast and not the simple type of women. do they get attracted towards betrayal
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@sirnose (2440)
• United States
9 Apr 08
Its the same for women to they tend to fall for don't give dam ego freaks,instead of the nerd or geek.
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@Hatley (164654)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Apr 08
And sometimesthe socalled nerd or geek as you say might just well be the most wonderful mate a gal could ever have. we put names on people and sometimes they are so off the wall it is not even funny as alot of nerds are smart, warm, loving men.
@theprogamer (10539)
• United States
10 Apr 08
Here's some nice reading information Sirn, about that statement of yours http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1424025.aspx - nice women going for bad boys
@dvschic (1796)
• United States
9 Apr 08
i think its the same reason that women love a bad boy, you want what's not good for you. i dont think that the fast women are necessarily not nice women. both sides are treated unfairly. which would you rather have? the smart guy in school or the football hero, most women would have chosen the football hero...
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• United States
9 Apr 08
I totally agree with dvschic, most woman when they have a good men by their side they reject him for the one that doesn't even care for her, I guess same thing can happen to men. and at one point or another we don't appreciate what we have 'til is too late.
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@dvschic (1796)
• United States
9 Apr 08
see i'm bi, so i like bad boys and bad girls, i totally understand that attraction, there is something forbidden about them, plus u want to be the one that can change them, is it logical? NO but we still do it
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• Estonia
9 Apr 08
As a man I dont really understand you question but try to answer . The reason we fall for bad girls( not good ) is that we think that nice girls dont like us . You see the thing im trying to say is a major problem in our society where everyone walks with grim-reapers face without ability saying such simple thing as * a like you * , until it is too late . Without expressing your feelings toward us we think that we are unwanted. So it is easier just to go have fun with bad girl who doesnt even care about us , instead of knowing that we are unwanted.
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@dpk262006 (56170)
• Delhi, India
10 Apr 08
It is not necessary that they fall for fast one. Many times simplicity of a woman wins my heart and I may feel attracted towards her due to her simplicity and down to earth attitude.
@cupid74 (11394)
• Pakistan
10 Apr 08
Hmmmm True Deepak But How many times it happened that u like the simplicity of Woman And then what next
@dpk262006 (56170)
• Delhi, India
10 Apr 08
Cupid dear....saari ki saari batey yahan 'public platform' par bataney k liyay mat kaho......LOL!
@cupid74 (11394)
• Pakistan
11 Apr 08
oooppssssss sorryy no problem u can write me in pvt and u know all contact info take care
@thechris (61)
• United States
11 Apr 08
I always fall for the nice girls, but as it always turns out they are already going out with somebody, I actually haven't fallen for a "bad" girl yet, but it is possible. Anyway I know that doesn't really answer your question, but then again not all men are the same.
@benthose (475)
• India
10 Apr 08
"Why are men not attracted to nice women." YOU ARE WRONG.. Men ARE most attracted to nice women... And according to men, nice women are those which are fast and not the simple type!!! This is what I mean: "Men stop thinking when they see a good-looking woman." They fall for it easily.. They are very gullible, and realise the mistake only after the betrayal. Its their nature.. No one can change it
@myrith (1830)
• Canada
10 Apr 08
It's the same reason girls go for the bad guys, they just love the thrill, I dont think it's anything personal toward the nice girls but the bad girls are generally more fun to these guys.
@balasri (26554)
• India
10 Apr 08
Because of the simple fact the not so nice women are very very repelling.
@mimpi1911 (25454)
• India
10 Apr 08
Dear moni, I think men are attracted towards frivolous, fun loving, care free girls. But when it comes to settling down they hardly fall for such girls and the same thing applies for girls as well. And I honestly feel, that there are many men who really like simple, down to earth, nice girls. After all, it''s not that bad sweetie. Have a great life.
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
10 Apr 08
Lots of Men will first hit their eyes by putting the priority of physical intimacy on the first list. That's why they are not attracted to nice women in the earlier phase. Lots of Women will put that on 3rd position after mental intimacy and emotional intimacy. That's why they way of men and women of love foundation is very different one to each other.
@RAINBOW2 (47)
• Argentina
10 Apr 08
Because they are very basics.
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
Maybe because they are more attractive to sexy and hot ladies. But when it comes to marriage they like someone that is faithful and trustworthy person. And a sweet and nice women.
@cupid74 (11394)
• Pakistan
10 Apr 08
Hi dear May be at start, to flirt they go for like that but after experience and to settle down they aklways look for nice and simple woman who can share their life with them take care of home and kids So at youth , bright things attract but with maturity, point of view changes
@subha12 (18453)
• India
10 Apr 08
i thinkits their way of looking at the women, they go by those outgoing quaklity in women. they do not go by quality.
@ciades (1624)
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
Man like attractive woman..Attractive in and out. A little bit animal attitude than can truly interact with them. Can give him pain and betrayal same as woman...Sometimes and mostly of nice woman is a victim of a pretender freak. Bad boys are wise and smart in catching them same as how they catched fish in the river.
@theprogamer (10539)
• United States
10 Apr 08
Men are attracted to them, they are just a bit rare though... Almost no one is attracted to betrayal, but I've seen some women go for bad boys just to produce/live-in drama. You also have to factor in some women that say they are nice really mean "they aren't like those women" (but still act like "them" to some degree).
@Hatley (164654)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Apr 08
I thinkit depends on the guy.for instance if all he really wants is just a quick roll in the hay he is going to be attracted to the glitzy dumb blonde with the big big boobs and the morals of an alley cat. But a more caring kind of man willbe attracted to the simple woman who interests him because of the way she thinks and talks and if she is pretty that is just frosting on the cake.An always statement does not really fit because all men donot fall fo the fast glitzy type with the morals of an alley cat.