love

United States
April 10, 2008 8:31am CST
Is it possible to fall in love with a person just from talking to them and sharing your most intimate moments together without ever meeting first?
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9 responses
@kalass (611)
• India
10 Apr 08
Yes it is very much possible. I cant explain how but i have seen that happen in my personal life.
• United States
10 Apr 08
Hi kalass, I was just curious, since you say this has happened in your own life have you ever met the person or do you still just talk, and if you have not met will you meet?
@kalass (611)
• India
10 Apr 08
Ya i have met the person and we do talk everyday on the phone as we cant meet everyday. we are seperated by quite a distance. I meant that physically.
• United States
1 Jun 08
Absolutely. Completely. Totally. There's no doubt in my mind that two people can bond very very closely without ever meeting. Although after you meet you'll realize there's some things that can't be conveyed over the phone or computer, but they're usually things you can get used to. But yes, I do believe it's VERY possible.
@subha12 (18454)
• India
11 Apr 08
it may be possible. the words have so much to do in love. but before commiting its better to look the person at least one and meet him. i have seen this happens over phone initially but before deciding its good to meet the person.
@Sissygrl (10915)
• Canada
10 Apr 08
I dunno for sure, but i could have sworn when i was a teenager i loved someone that i met online and still have never met, and rarely ever speak to anymore.. its been years.. He lives in california an di lived on the east coast. .
@jarred (178)
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
well yeah you dont have to see the person to fall inlove with them. if you ever fall inlove with a person without meeting them and once you meet them and you backed out, because of their looks, then you didnt fall in love. but if you accept him or her for how he or she looks without even meeting them then youre a good person. love could be shared by two people without even meeting them. sharing things, and other stuff means you are comfortable enough to take to him or her with anything. this will bring you too closer. its hard to explain but yes its possible to fall in love without meeing the person.
@deeeky (3669)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
10 Apr 08
All things are possible where love is concerned. I am sure that mountain moved from the last place I saw it!
• China
10 Apr 08
Maybe it will happen to somebody,in my opinion,it will not last for a long time.But someone can manage their love very well.
@Ravenladyj (22940)
• United States
10 Apr 08
Absolutely! With my bf and I our relationship (as friends) started out strictly through snail mail and phone calls..I fell head over heels in love with him but didnt meet him until 2 or 3 yrs later in person..
@kezabelle (2985)
10 Apr 08
Of course it is loving someone is about knowing them about finding out what makes them ,them, knowing their habits but liking them anyway. You cant love some properly until you know all about them who they are thats what you fall in love with any feelings before that like when you have allready met them is simply lust and attraction Attraction is the one not possible having not met I think, but love yes very possible.