'where did i go wrong?'...'how can i get her back?'

@meiji15 (664)
Philippines
April 10, 2008 10:48am CST
this is the question that my bestfriend asked me a couple of days ago when he and his girlfriend had a fight. i was pretty ticked off because he didn't tell me the whole story, i myself have no idea whose at fault. right now, i'm giving him some space. after a week, hopefully, he'll spill the reason as to why they broke up. also, he's asking for some advice on how to get her back? can you guys help the poor soul?
4 responses
@swirlz (3138)
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
Well I can't give any advice if I don't know what happened. Same as you. But if he thinks he's at fault, it's best to ask for forgiveness. Maybe that would get her back.
@meiji15 (664)
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
yeah---about that, he's a wee bit protective about his pride. you know, the typical guy who hates to admit his fault. but i can't blame him, i to am proud and it would kill me to admit my fault. (that's why we're friends) though, i'll still tell him that it would be best to swallow his pride and apologize---or at least make the first move to patch things up i'll keep you posted about the reason
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
11 Apr 08
What you can do right now, is letting him to use his loner time. You only need to motivate his spirit up by not pushing him more into the memory. Try to bring up a floating conversation which brings a no solution method. This one works in mostly case to solve the broken up in man. But anyway, it's his lonely time is the best cure for himself. When he is ready, then you may help him in full support. Oh by the way, don't tell him to move on or introduce your a female friend to him. Or the next girl will suffer a lot from his exiling session.
11 Apr 08
It really doesn't matter who is at fault. When two people want to be together they have to work at it. Just come together to discuss how they are feeling, receive how the other is feeling and someone will have to compromise. Don't take sides, just be there to listen and help your friend through this.
@subha12 (18453)
• India
11 Apr 08
i think its tough for us to say. as you know, you are yet to know the fact whatweb=nt wrong. actually just from guessing, all these sensitive things can't be solved. hope he spills all to you and then you can ask here.