what would you do..

Brunei Darussalam
April 11, 2008 6:44am CST
in a relationship, it's not all cream and butter i know..but women tend to make it as much as they can to make it that way.. we are the more emotional ones, at least i am.. when things get rough, as in really rough..i still try to make it smooth as long as i can..it's really hard coz some people would blame you, saying you're only making your partner worst..but i don't think it to be that way, am doing this coz i love him and i still believe that he would change...the only problem w/ me is that i keep on believing though how many times he had hurt me.. i wanted him to change, but i also cannot endure on leaving him to realize his mistakes.. i am giving him an ultimatum that if he still did not change, then i would definitely leave him..but until when would i wait?
2 responses
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
12 Apr 08
You cannot change a man, but you can had your man changed. Hope this is useful. ^_^
• Brunei Darussalam
12 Apr 08
i think that's right
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
12 Apr 08
thanks. hope the meaning now is in your heart and your soul. Only them can recognize what does it mean. anyway, nice thread.
@kezabelle (2985)
11 Apr 08
I think there just becomes a time when you say enough is enough and leave. Although it depends how you want them to change sometimes its not about making them change but relaxing our feelings a little to compromise rather than asking them to stop doing something or change their day to day things they do. If its out and out he is hurting you either emotionally physically or verbally then only you know when you should wait to before telling him you are gone, but no one should ahve to put up with anyone else continuously hurting them no matter how much you might love that person
• Brunei Darussalam
12 Apr 08
thanks kezabelle, guess i just have to sort out things and really give it a thorough thought and decide..