Should I have a tattoo of my girl riend's name?

@goergineo (1498)
Jordan
April 15, 2008 9:58am CST
She is asking me to. well I like tattoos but not her name. I mean what if we break up. what do you think?
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• United States
15 Apr 08
It is considered unlucky to tattoo your girlfriend or boyfriend's name on your body. The issue about breaking up is key here. You can safely tattoo your mother's name on your body, because she will never change. However, girlfriends and wives come and go. The problem here, is that she will see the idea as a lack of commitment. So, the trick here is to handle this without seeming to be afraid of commitment. Has she, by any chance, gotten a tattoo of your name on her body? If not, then suggest that you don't like name-tattoos and wouldn't want her to put your name on her body either. To back this up, you can point out the idea of a 'tramp stamp.' Certain men who put women on the street to earn money in questionable ways will have the woman put a tattoo of their name on their bodies as a sort of proof of ownership. Therefore, you can voice reluctance to tattoo names on bodies -- hopefully without seeming afraid of commitment.
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
17 Apr 08
that was really good. thanks for sharing dear.
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15 Apr 08
I have four tattoos, all my own artwork. I would never want to have a name as a tattoo, they never really look very good and can cause a lot of problems in the future.
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
16 Apr 08
absolutely right.
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@ediona (147)
• Romania
23 Apr 08
Dont do that because if you break up with her,you need to fiind somebody else(the perfect person for you)and you fiind her and you will marry with her,how do you think she will fel when every day she need to see a strange name on you.Think about.
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
24 Apr 08
you are right dear. I should not do it.
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@Chispa514 (871)
• Montreal, Quebec
24 Apr 08
I say don't do it ! I am speaking from experience that it is a BADDDD move to do ! A few years ago, I got the name of someone i was almost sure that I was going to marry on my neck, and months after I got it, we broke up, and now me and him don't even speak to each other at all, actually he acts like as if we were never together in the first place. I'm just lucky that I didn't get it very big, so when I have my hair down you dont see it. I'm getting it covered up soon, I just have to figure out what I can put that will cover it
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
24 Apr 08
Thats so nice of you to share your experience. I really appreciate it. I am absolutely agree with. when you break up, it brings all the bad feeling. I will never do it. thanks dear.
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@wayaya (13)
• China
23 Apr 08
I think you have got the answer by yourself,If i were you i would not do that.Maybe you can tattoo something else that she likes very much as a replacement.
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
24 Apr 08
That a good suggestion. I would consider seriously. thanks for replay dear.
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• United States
23 Apr 08
its bad luck man. i have my ex bf's name on the back of my neck. i had to get it covered up along time ago. now im married and regret that tattoo everyday.
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
24 Apr 08
you are right degree. I do want to regret on something, I have the choice now to do it or not. you are right. thanks
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
15 Apr 08
i dont mean to be the devil's advocate but most of those i knew who had their partner's name tattooed in their body... in any part, most of them have already separated. :) he he that was not a joke. they're true. anyway im sure you won't be having the same problem.. but of course when you do that, have no regrets.
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
16 Apr 08
Thanks for the information. I am more biased toward not to do it. thanks dear.
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@kaysue4 (951)
• United States
15 Apr 08
Never put a girls name on your body unless it is your mother's or your child's. You will always end up being asked about that relationship and what happened to it. My son put a name on his wrist and now regrets it, my other one, on his chest by his heart. Don't do it. I have never done this and I am happy for it, my ex had several girl's names on him and I would always have to look at them and always wonder if he was telling me the truth about them.
@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
16 Apr 08
Well i am so sorry about your ex. I am more biased towards not to do it. that has been so informative. thanks dear. take care.
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• United States
15 Apr 08
There's no reason for her to be insistent that you get a tattoo of her name on your body, if for no other reason than -hello-, it's -YOUR- body. If you wanted to tattoo her name on you, then that's one thing, but no one should pressure you into a permanent (unless you want to undergo a painful process to remove it, rather like the painful process that you would have to endure to get it put on) body modification. You would be stuck with it, if you did break up, and knowing how relationships seem to come and go, I wouldn't suggest getting it. Best of luck.
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
16 Apr 08
I will take your suggestion seriously. all people here suggest me not to do it. so, i am gonna tell her that i do not wanna do it.
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@kilani123 (864)
• United Arab Emirates
17 Apr 08
never do it man. It is a real disaster. if you do it, then you should keep in mind that if you break up, it become a hell for you. well if you are 100% sure that you would not break up. you can do it.
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
19 Apr 08
Yeah I like what you are saying here. Thanks dear for sharing
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@kilani123 (864)
• United Arab Emirates
16 Apr 08
Well. It is nice to have your girl friend's name as a tattoo. that shows commitment. actually it seems a forever commitment. so, you have to make sure that she is gonna be your wife then. If you are not to ask here now. you have to think about it seriously. Ask your self if she is the one or not. I think this good happening to you now cause it is gonna save you a lot of time.
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
17 Apr 08
Thanks. that was very very good. I like it. you it could save me a lot of time. you are right dear.
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@Breath (1297)
• United States
15 Apr 08
Love always doesn't last but tattoo's are forever...Don't let no one push you into something you don't want.I mean you can show her in another way you love her without getting her name.Good luck...;)
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
16 Apr 08
Thanks breath. you are always hitting the point in few words. I like your comments.
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• Philippines
15 Apr 08
I think the mere fact that you're hesitating means you're not that committed to her yet and it would only bring you pain if you ever break up (pain from the break-up and pain from eventually trying to erase the tattoo :P) So in my opinion, don't do it.
@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
16 Apr 08
so good and wise. absolutely take it seriously. thanks dear. and good luck.
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• United States
15 Apr 08
No, but maybe get your wifes name one day.Yes you could break up some day. And then you'd either have to wear it, remove it, or have it coverd with something else.If it were me I wouldn't.
@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
16 Apr 08
Agree with you. Thanks for sharing dear.
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• Malaysia
24 Jun 08
absolutely a BIG NO NO!
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• United States
20 Apr 08
No! The only tattoos with names should be ones like Mom, Dad, Grandpop or your children. You may break up and be stuck with that reminder...could be a rather nasty breakup and something you don't want to be reminded of ever again.
• United States
21 Apr 08
I agree...a friend of mine had a former boyfriend's name tattooed on her lower leg...she's now looking to have it removed, since she's with a new guy and they're talking marriage. OUCH!
@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
21 Apr 08
thanks for sharing this , i appreciate it . one of the participants here told me that is not easy to be removed and the cost of removing it is much higher than the cost of getting it . thanks again
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
21 Apr 08
yeah. so right. if i break up with her with her name tattooed on my body. It is gonna be torturing. thanks dear.
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• United States
15 Apr 08
I think getting your gf's name is kind of tacky. You never know what may happen if you break up, so now you're left with a tattoo that you will either have to keep forever or have removed (which I've heard is painful)and possibly make any other girlfriend that comes along angry because you have another girls name on your body. Just a bad idea I think.
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
16 Apr 08
yeah that is what I am telling my self. thanks dear.
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@goldwin65 (935)
• Malaysia
24 Apr 08
I don't think it is a wise idea for you to have a tattoo of your girlfriend's name because it doen't do any good to you. Well, if she is meant for you, she will be yours and you don't need to have her name of your body. Worst still, if you have a tattoo of her name attached to your body and you break up, you will regret it for life. I never like name as tattoo though I've seem several people having tattoo of their name or their friends name.
• Malaysia
25 Apr 08
Bad Bad Idea.. but if she still insisted, try getting a tattoo that sort of symbolize her. Maybe "My Angle". And if you dont end up with her, at least, you could still cover it up with the other girls you will end up with by saying that, they are your angle. But names?.. not a good idea.
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@digerati (286)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
hii goergineo, i believe you shouldn't. it is not whether you will break up or what.. it is just that, in the first place, you don't want to do it right? what she want is not always your want, too... digerati