Need boys give their lovers security?

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It was saturday,my mom phoned me as usual.As we refered to my sister Crystal who works in BeiJing, mom showed her disatisfaction for Crystal's boyfriend. He is really a shy boy .They have been gone steady with each other for almost two years ,however ,he even doesn't dare to talk to my family on the phone till now .He acts like a child who hasn't grow up completed. His poor performance makes my mather worry indeed .She certainly doesn't wish such a person to take care of her daughter .In case he is incapable to fender for himself ,let alone my sister . Mom's worry is reasonable .All parents wish their chidren a happy life .Even though i don't feel like seeing her intervetion in Crystal's love affair .We have come of age ,maybe it's the time for us to make the choice .We are seeking for the person who is going to live with us for the rest of our life .And no one has the magic ability to predict how the person will be like .We just use our feelings and by all heart and soul . However ,live in such a realistic world ,we have to take bread into consideration. Living always comes first .It is aslo the boys' obiligation to guaratee girls who are going to be their wives stable life --both security in mental and material . Though someone may argue that men and women have the equal responsibility in supporting the family ?That's true in theroy .But the actual world turns out to be a little different .In a word ,boys ,you really have to take action .Do make your lover and her family feel the assurance .Sense of safety is paramount for both of them .