My Love Problem 2: Zack Lee

@Wyrus168 (131)
Malaysia
April 15, 2008 3:17pm CST
My name is Zack lee, 18 years old, still a virgin. My story, is all about this girl Kathleen, that, how should I describe her... she have a cheerful look, gorgeous body shape, absolute height, and popular. She is unlike other girls in my school, open-minded, that's the main element I like about her. Other girls if you tell them directly that you are interested in them, they will quickly get shy and run away; but Kathleen is not one of the kind. Here's the thing that has been bothering me for years. You see, she is hot, and popular, if you wanna to get her to be your girlfriend, your chances are almost equal to zero percent, no chance at all. The main reason is that, she wanted to focus on her studies, which... a year later, she got an excellent result in the SPM exam (an important exam in our country). I'm quite of a Math nerd in my school, I told one of my best friend about my crush on Kathleen, and the news immediately reach her ears in about 2 days, all because of I'm a Math nerd. One day, we were having this Chemistry class, she happen to be my lab partner during that day. We started to discuss about the experiment, carry out the experiment, then wait for the result. While waiting, we had a good chat, which later... I don't know why, she suddenly ask me whether I like her. There was a pause moment, then I just say 'Yes'. Then there was another pause moment, we're looking at each other, I think she might be shock about my answer. Then, the terrible thing she did after the pause moment was, she turn away and start to chat with another classmate from another table in the lab. She totally ignore me, did she listen it properly, I remember that I did said the 'Yes' word loud and clear enough. After that 'Incident', we barely chat with each other anymore, that 'incident' had causes much nightmares to me, and terror. 2 years later, we met at reunion dinner, it was this year, happened last week. We have a small chat, got each other contact number. What I know about her is that, she's still not in a relationship. This is my chance, I'm still thinking whether I should give her a call or not, ask her out for a dinner on a Saturday night? She's free now, she do not have to focus on her studies anymore, she's 'unbook now'. The thing is, what do I need to say to her in order to start a discussion, and then proceed with my love plan?
4 responses
• United States
16 Apr 08
There's nothing shameful about still being a virgin, and if you're caught up with this girl and you're starting this story off with issues with your virginity you might want to tread carefully. Asking for a date is acceptable since you exchanged numbers and seem to be talking well enough. Just don't go into it with too many expectations. That will make you nervous and might make her a bit wary of you. Just be natural, and don't try -too- hard. :P Best of luck.
@toe_ster (770)
• United States
16 Apr 08
I think life is about living and taking chances. You see a girl you know her a bit, you think you like her, she pays no attention to you and it breaks your heart. I say go for it. Call her up ask her out. Tell her how much you think of her as standing above the crowd, and smart and worthy of getting to know. If she rejects you you have nothing to lose. You gain experience ina new situation you can apply next time. Just be yourself. Someone will come along who appreciates you for you. But don't focus on this one girl as being the only girl in the world. Live your life how you want and not what you wish for. Make it happen. It sucks living life on regrets. Good luck!
• India
15 Apr 08
hi dear,well i must say a pretty sad story, dont worry so much you are still too young to get so tangled up in anything. guess it was true that she wanted to concentrate on her studies and not get into anything. wel if she has exchanged numbers i think you should give her a call it would be nice. at the same time do not scare her off, be a good friend and see how it goes from there.all the best
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
15 Apr 08
Just ask her out, for years, you've been yearning for the girl of your dreams. It ia about time that you become an adult guy who ask the girl out. I believe that it is worth a risk since you like her for a very long time. :) Be yourself. In that way, you will be able to show your true intention to her. You can do it! Cheers!