I need help and strong thoughts

By Gabs
@gabs8513 (48716)
United Kingdom
April 16, 2008 9:42am CST
Most of you know what my Son went through last week He is better and as for the Lump we are waiting for tests to come back now but they think it is a Cyst That's not the help I need After everything last Week, my Son still went for a Job Interview on Friday which he is hoping to get, he needs this job, so that he can get on with his Life now, so that he can move away from there and start fresh somewhere else now He will be staying there in the Area because his Sister and Friends are there but he needs to get out of the House with all the Memories and it is close to her Mum and Dads House to So please everyone keep him in your thoughts for me so that he can get this Job and if not this one that he finds another one soon I feel awful because I have had to rely so much on you all and I know that you all have Problems , I am just still worried about my Boy because I know he so desperately just wants to get on now I just want to let you all know even though I am going through all this I will still be there for my Friends to as I always have been and will be I can split myself believe me lol Love and Hugs to you all
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@mamasan34 (6521)
• United States
16 Apr 08
Oh honey don't worry about that at all! We are here for you and certainly we want to be a source of support for you too! I will definitely be thinking positive thoughts for your son. I really do hope he gets that job. As for the cyst, honey, at least it's a cyst and not something worse. I know that's not the best answer but I am just glad it's not something far worse than that. Anyhow, I am praying for your son and for your peace of mind!
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
16 Apr 08
Sweetie thank you he has still not heard and it is Night time so I hope he will hear tomorrow or at least this week I just want him to be able to go on now
@gemini_rose (16193)
16 Apr 08
Its great that it could just be a cyst!! I had that once you know, under my armpit, it was very scary at the time though. I will send all my positive thoughts that he gets the job!! It will be just what he needs. I do not think you rely on us too much and as for problems well I always was told that a problem shared is a problem halved, so that is that sorted!!! Take care xx
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@webeishere (36353)
• United States
16 Apr 08
years ago I had "exploraotory sirgery" on a lump on my wrist. Turned out to be scar tissue that they ended up scraping off the bone. Good luck agaion also. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
16 Apr 08
Rose thank you Sweetie I have just woke up lol I am still so tired but I will take Gissi out and then have my tea and ring you after ok Thank you for being here for me xxx
@gemini_rose (16193)
16 Apr 08
It is ok, I am glad to be able to help.xx
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@abbey19 (3129)
• Gold Coast, Australia
17 Apr 08
Gabs, you know that your son will be in my prayers, and I do hope he gets the job so that he can get on with his life and have a fresh start. The lump probably is a cyst, but I know you and your son will be worried until you know for sure. Don't feel bad for relying on us - we are your friends, and here to help each other in any way we can, even if it is just a hearing ear. At least this way you can get things off your chest, and that's always a good thing, yeah? Stop worrying pal. We are happy to be here for you.
@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
18 Apr 08
Abbey thank you You are one of longest Friends here and you know that I love you and that I think you are wonderful You are always here as well to support me Thank you Hugs
@subha12 (18453)
• India
17 Apr 08
i will keep your son and you in prayer. there are tough times in liofe taht we face. still we get the ways to f=get over. i think he will get the job soon and will be recovered as well.
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
18 Apr 08
Thank you Subha and please do not worry about your Star we will get you back up there Don't leave please Hugs
17 Apr 08
All my thoughts and best wishes are with you hun, I'm sure everything will turn out ok even though it is a dreadful worry.
@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
18 Apr 08
Thank you Recycle and thank you for being a good Friend
@tammyr (5956)
• Etowah, Tennessee
17 Apr 08
My dear gabs! I am so sorry to hear about your son, but happy everything will be okay. I will keep you and him in my prayers. And NEVER EVER feel bad that you need your friends. That is what we are here for! We love you and want to be there when you need us. I hate that I was not here before now, but I get so little time on line any more. ((((((((((Hugs)))))))))) :)
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
18 Apr 08
Tammy it is so good to see you again And please do not worry about not being here I know you hardly have time but you are here for me in my time of need and that is what I love about you Big Hugs
@dawnald (84147)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Apr 08
You and he are in my thoughts. Yep I have problems too but not such that I can't feel for somebody else's problems! Best of luck to him!
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
16 Apr 08
Thank you Dawn you know I appreciate it very much
@minnie_98214 (10574)
• United States
16 Apr 08
Youll be in my prayers for sure hope it all works out for you and your family.
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
16 Apr 08
Thank you Minnie and I hope you are taking care of yourself there to
@dana234 (2116)
• Spain
16 Apr 08
I can imagine that the results of your son´s scan are creating even more worries for you now. But it might be a small cyst which does not need removal. Or a benign one which can be removed without further complications. I know it must be so hard having to wait and see concerning your son´s health and his Job search. But he seems to be a determined young man and I´m sure that he will eventually find work. You don´t have to feel awful because you´re sharing your problems with us. I´m only too glad if I can be of some help to you. I know you are always here when you´r e friends need advice, so don´t worry. I´m thinking about you and your son and sending tons of love to both of you. XXX Dana
@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
16 Apr 08
My lovely Friend thank you so much you know how much this means to me Hugs to you and lots of Love to you xxxx
@Darkwing (21588)
16 Apr 08
You know you're all, always in my thoughts, my dear friend, and this time is no exception. I will be burning a candle and sending my energies to Mike that he may find his way around these obstacles and begin afresh. Brightest Blessings love and hugs. xxx
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
18 Apr 08
Thank you my lovely Friend and yes I do know he still has no Job and the last Company has not paid him the Money they owe they have said they do not owe him and they do I just wish it would all stop and work out for him what else can I do Love and Hugs xxxx
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@Darkwing (21588)
18 Apr 08
Sweetheart... we all have to balance, in line with the Universe, and for every obstacle, there will be a sunny day. Keep faith, Gabs... all will be balanced for Mike. Love you xxx
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
21 Apr 08
I really hope so Darkwing at the moment we are not seeing the light it is so frustrating Love you xxxxx
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@arkaf61 (10882)
• Canada
20 Apr 08
twin dear, I am adding my most positive thoughts. I know that your son will be able to get that job and his life will improve. There is way too much on his plate right now but I am sure that once he gets this job things will start looking up. Don't worry, twin, it will work out.
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
23 Apr 08
Twin he didn't get it so he is still looking Hugs to you
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@arkaf61 (10882)
• Canada
23 Apr 08
I"m so sorry hon, but I still think he will be getting something soon, something that will make things much better :)
• Australia
17 Apr 08
Wow, I hope he gets the job. Please, let us know if he gets it or not. I will keep you all in my prayers!
@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
18 Apr 08
Sassy thank you I really appreciate this
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• Australia
18 Apr 08
No problem, you're very welcome. Please, give us an update when you can...
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@blackbriar (9080)
• United States
17 Apr 08
Ok then, which way you gonna split yourself? Verticle or horizonal? -giggling- I've never stopped praying for you and your son, gabs. He'll find a job, if not this one then a different one. Have faith, my friend.
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
18 Apr 08
Lol I don't know yet which way would you say I should split lololol Thank you Sweet for bringing a smile to my Face and for being here for me
• United States
18 Apr 08
Your very much welcome, my friend.
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@ellie333 (21029)
19 Apr 08
As ever thoughts and prayers are with you for your son and for the whole family at this difficult time. I really wish him well for a new job and pleased lump is just a cyst. God bless. Ellie :D
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
23 Apr 08
Thank you Ellie we have not heard yet and he is still looking for a job to
@winterose (39918)
• Canada
19 Apr 08
I am sorry that I am always so far behind in my emails. I hope your son got the job he needed. He certainly needs that break. Hey we at mylot have a heart big enough to keep all our friends and there joys and troubles in it and don't you forget that.
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
23 Apr 08
Hey Rose no Problem I am well behind myself to be honest Thank you for keeping me in your Heart you know I really appreciate that Hugs
@maddysmommy (16236)
• United States
18 Apr 08
Sending lots of prayers and positive thoughts your way, especially for your son HUGS!
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
18 Apr 08
Maddy thank you I am glad that I found you on here and I will miss you when you are away Love and Hugs
@Feona1962 (7527)
• United States
18 Apr 08
I will be thinking of him and you always..Things will get better..It just seems like so much is going on all at once and you don't know which way to turn...I understand...Hugs to you and your son...
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
18 Apr 08
Feona thank you Sweetie and I know you are here for me to Big Hugs to you
• United States
17 Apr 08
sweety don't worry everything is going to be fine, he's gonna get this job you will see, whenerver thing turn like this we need to have in mind that there is always someone worse than us and we need to thank god for giving us the oportunity to live every single day and for everything we got.. don't worry at the end everything goes back to its place.. ;)
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
18 Apr 08
Sweetie I really hope so as he has been through more then enough these past few months and specially the last couple of weeks
• Philippines
17 Apr 08
don't be silly...just believe in GOD and to your son..that's all you can do for now..keep holding on..good luck..
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
18 Apr 08
Thank you
@royal52gens (5380)
• United States
17 Apr 08
Love and Hugs to you and Gissi and your son. Thank the Lord that the cyst is not something worse. I will pray for you and your family. I hope peace of mind comes to you soon.
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
18 Apr 08
Thank you Sweetie and let me tell you I am happy to see you here You have been through so much yourself and I just want to hug you Thank you for being my Friend I am so glad that we met the wrong way and became good Friends lol