Son or Daughter ?

China
April 16, 2008 11:55pm CST
Do you like to have a son or a daughter? I want to have a daughter. Because girls are always be intimated to mothers. Daughters are the wadded jackets thich are heart to heart with their mothers. Meanwhile, boys are always bothered their parents. They are act up ones. Anyway, you can dress up your daughters, and lead them to win the admire of others! But my hubby don't think so. He said that parents always pay more attention to their daughters. Because as girls grow bigger, they will be attracted by the world and maybe hurt by others. And he said, boys are the support of a family. Boys can protect family members. Anyway, parents love all of their chilren. Which one do you like best? Son or daughter?
4 responses
@Nardz13 (5059)
• New Zealand
17 Apr 08
Hi there. We have two children, a son 14 going on 15 and a daughter 12 going on 13. Both our children are awsome, well mannered and very communicative with us. I love this about our children, we are bringing them up so that the lines for communication are never closed, they chat to us about everything, and we are quiet close, this to me is special. Both sons and daughters can have awsome close relationships with there parents, and we have just that. We love both our children as well as our nieces and nephews too. Have a great day.
• China
18 Apr 08
How harmonious your family is! I am really envious of you! The ideal family I dream is the kind of yours. I hope that I could have a lovely child and my family could live a life as you do. Your family is our example! Wish you good luck and your family a happy and healthy lives!
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@Nardz13 (5059)
• New Zealand
20 Apr 08
Hi. Thanks for the awsome positive reply back. Wish you the best in life, cheers, have another good one...
@moondan (714)
• China
17 Apr 08
I am of the opinion,i don't care son or daughter,i only wish my baby will be healthy and happy. I have also start a discussion which the same as you.I also want to know nowadays whether people mind to have daughter or son.In my country,old people all love to have grandson.If their daughter-in-law have a girl for their family,they will not be happy.I think it is because of the customes.At the acient,man is honor than woman.one man could have many wifes but woman can only has one husband and do every to make him happy.so man are posted in my country.I think it is unfair. But the young couple don't think so.more and more people love to have daughter,some reasons is the same as what you mentioned above.daughter are lovely and docile.daughter is also intimate than boys to their parents. My elder brother,many of my friends all prefer to have daughter.
• China
18 Apr 08
I think you are right. I used to see the circs of this kind. A woman had to leave her husband and the family, just because she gave birth to four girls but no boys. The most indignant thing was that the husband shown no resistance but just brush aside this! Girls have no right to enjoy the same as the boys. They could not go to school because they should do house work. They have to be ahead when they are young because they should afford their brothers' school work. Rarer thing is that the girls have to marry with the handicappeds they don't like, just because the handicappeds give their parents a lot of money! How a tragic life they live!
@moondan (714)
• China
20 Apr 08
It is really a pity.It's hard to change the peole's mind,but i absurlutely believe the phenomenon will be less and less.Now people recieve more education.and the traditional ideas will disapear one day.women will have their own status.
• India
17 Apr 08
That is really a nice questions. I'd love to have both cause both a son and a daughter are special in different aspects!! :)
• China
18 Apr 08
Yes, you are right! Twins are so lovely that almost everyone likes them. I think I will be yippee if I could have two girls, twins of girls! Oh,I am so excited though I just think about this!
@ankilla (326)
• India
17 Apr 08
I like daughter, its a vice versa sons are more attached to mothers and daughters to dad. Being a male I will opt to have daughter
• China
18 Apr 08
Maybe your wife will be not happy as you said. However, she will be yippee by a lovely and prettiness daughter.