It is posibil to change your boyfriend?

@ediona (148)
Romania
April 17, 2008 3:02am CST
Me and my beloved are we togheter almost 6 year and how whas then so it is now.My question it is we can change him,and if the answer iti is yes who?If ther are posibil i whant answer and from the boy.
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
17 Apr 08
yes you can if you have a good reason. a convincing one. a relationship is not a game you play it whenever you want. you should have a good reason. good luck
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@Pitgull (1523)
• United States
17 Apr 08
You shouldn't be with someone you want to change. People are people. You should be with someone because you are willing to take them with their good and bad. Can you handle his faults if he never changes? That's the real question. If you're so focused on changing him, then he's not the one you want to be with. That's not fair when you want one person to be someone that they are not, when that someone is probably out there.
@ediona (148)
• Romania
18 Apr 08
Ok,dont start to judge me now.I dont whant to change his one sort,i whant to know if iti is posibil to make him to give up to bad customs like(ugly eating,or to snore)that kind of thing.And thanks a lot for your answer i hope you will accept my friendship.
@Pitgull (1523)
• United States
18 Apr 08
I didn't mean to offend you and I'm not judging. With snoring, you could talk him into those sleep strips...:)
@nghaipao (89)
17 Apr 08
I and my darling are so close since 7 years back but I don't what happen know... I thought we can never change and I believed that we will be like this forever but recently we are separated and she have changed when she was propose by some handsome guys and now I have decided not to believed in friendship but again today I have change little bit because some my friend from mylot.com said not to take such type of decision whatsoever life is just only once... remember and do your friend wills by now because He may change tomorrow or the other day... teach him a good lesson and give your love with all that you have... thanks
@xlinzixx (511)
17 Apr 08
i dont think its possible to change a boyfriend coz i have the opinion of once a cheat always a cheat etc. and if your wanting to change him then maybes you dont love him like you used to.
@subha12 (18453)
• India
17 Apr 08
i think in arelationship, where you want to change the person in love, there is still something void in the relation. actually its good to accept the person as it is in love. when you tend to change, it means you are not happy.
• India
17 Apr 08
I dont think changing ur bf is possible, though there r many things that we like, they changed about, but thats the man, hez all about. We gotta adapt and accept him as he is, but may b the lesser ones like, you dont like the way he doesnt wash his feet when he come bk home or minor ones could b bought to notice n cud b changed....
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
17 Apr 08
Never ever change your boyfriend. You will lead your relationship into a broken one. What you need to give him is chances of to be: 1. Appreciated. 2. Accepted. 3. Trusted. Then you will get what you want, without changing him.
@SHAMRACK (8533)
• India
17 Apr 08
Dear friend, It depends upon each individuals views, importance and value of love and relationship they give and they have. It might be different according to love and affection they give to others. May be some have to depart as they love each other for betterment and some sacrifice their life for others benefit, there goes the difference according the variation of value given to love.
@filmbuff (2909)
• United States
17 Apr 08
You can't change him, not much anyways, the same way a man can't really change a girlfriend. People are people, are people. They are who they are, that is the sum of their experiences, their personality and their intelligence and humor to name but a few things. People will change over time, but the saying is that a leapard cannot change it spots, for people that is mostly true also. Little things can be changed, people will grow and change on their own, but activily trying to change someone, to mold them into what you want them to be almost always is a surefire way to end a relationship and create a lot of harsh feelings on both sides. Accept him for who he is, or find someone else that is closer to what you want. Just keep in mind that no one is perfect.