of love and heartbreak

Philippines
April 18, 2008 8:10am CST
HEARTBREAK is an odd kind of pain. Simply because you are not dying, you are not even sick. For all intents and purposes, you are perfectly fine. Yet deep inside, you are hurt so much that you could hardly breathe. You can not sleep, and you can not stop the tears from falling. You may eat too much, you may not eat at all. Non-smokers light up a cigarette and non-drinkers find a bar. A BROKEN HEART is indeed the world's greatest equalizer, because it can bring even the strongest man to his knees.
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• Philippines
18 Apr 08
Heartbreak is something you cannot master. no matter how many times it happened to u, you'll never get through it easily. it's always a hard process. some may just be more intense than the other, but still the same, it's painful. No one is spared from this. everyone who have loved, have experienced this. and everyone can attest that there is , indeed, no easier way to break up with your lovedone. and at that point you'll say, "i'll never love again" but we're just so stubborn, if not plain stupid, to love again. committing the same mistakes, never learning from our past heartbreaks. i broke up with my boyfriend today. i thought i'm stronger now, and would'nt care less, but SURPRISE SURPRISE!, it sure looks like a long healing process...here i am, hating all the men, wanting to be alone, trying to forget this nightmare, swearing not to love again and mourning for my loss, and thinking someday my prince charming will come rescue me and we'll live happily ever after. I'M SO SAD...:-(
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• Philippines
21 Apr 08
Hello GirlStaringAtU! I am so sad to hear your story. I was once like you are. I have also fallen so deep in love yet still lose in the end. We all take risks in love and gamble our hearts. Breaking up is never really easy. And yes you are right that healing process is such a long way. The bottomline of this matter is that we love and get hurt, get hurt and learn, learn and love again. For love is such a wonderful feeling and that life is always better to have somebody to share with.
• United States
18 Apr 08
Heartbreak, is horrible. I have been there and i am right now helping my best friend. I can't even describe heartbreak because it is just there.
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• United States
28 Apr 08
candy hearts - use candy hearts to say what you feel
It is very hard to have someone's heart broken. You cry yourself to sleep and then in the morning, you cry even before you can wake up. Most of the time, you would rather stay curled up in bed, for whatever comfort it can provide. You want to run away but you always end up back where you started from. You want to forget but you can't no matter how hard you try. At the end of the day, you try to tell yourself, tomorrow will be a better day. But it never happens.........