will long distance luv relationship work for you?
April 18, 2008 11:39am CST
for instance, you're with a fantastic person. you feel that he/she's perfect for you. he/she however lives far accross the globe from you. will you work things out with that person?
19 Apr 08
definitely! if i really love that person, i'll be willing to be with him no matter how far apart we would be. it wont be easy but at least i'll get to be with the person i love and that's what matters the most. anyway i've been in a long distance relationship before. No doubt it was very hard, especially with the time difference. i have no idea how i survived that, but i did. drove me nuts at times and made me cry too. but there are many means to keep in touch; telephone, email, IMs, digi cam..etc. i missed him a lot, every single second and wish i could see him or for him to be physically there with me, whenever i was sad or happy. you need to have a solid trust, as you're not able to see what your other half is doing. And you need to have lots of faith, enough to not make you give up on your relationship. but i believe, in the end, love is what that holds you together. if two people really love each other, no matter how far they apart they are, they'll be able to go thru the relationship. love knows no boundaries;).
• United States
18 Apr 08
This to me sounds really exciting. I once went with this guy who lived in Denmark, while I was in Irmo. He would drive his dad's car just to see me. The relationship was okay. But he would see me and then there were times he would make up some kind of excuse to see me. If you want it to work, it will. If not it won't work.
18 Apr 08
I think if love is real, it will last whether there is distance or not. Distance relationships are hard work. It requires one to be able to resist temptations when the heart gets lonely. It requires people to make that special effort to keep in touch. But I think if people are determined and really in love distance will not be the problem.
• Montreal, Quebec
25 Apr 08
As long as you stay honest with the person, and be willing to trust them that they will stay faithful, and if you are willing to stay faithful yourself, then things should work out wonderfully. Long distance relationships are hard, but in the end they are worth it. Unfortunately not everyone has the mental strength to cope with the ups and downs of a long distance relationship.
19 Apr 08
I always believe that long distance relationship works for me, but when i was already in that situation i realized its really hard to maintain a relationship. It didn't work for me because there weren't enough trust and bond between us before he left. Maybe that was our mistake we should have spend more time together before being apart. Right now im not into long distance relationships anymore.