what do you think of this?
April 22, 2008 9:51pm CST
My bf is someone who saves for our future. I'm bothered because of this. He don't want to buy things for himself. Its because he wants to save for our future. His work is not stable. While me, I'm enjoying my life. I do spend and spend. I do save too, but not unlike him that all my earnings will go to savings. I understand that he doesn't earn as much as I do considering that I have a permanent job. Most of the time, I do pay for our dates. Sometimes, he also pays for our dates but not that much. I'm really getting disturbed because of our situation. Last week, his phone was lost and he had to replace it. He's asking me to add cash. I dont know. We're in our 6t year. If you were in my situation, will it also bother you? By the way, our savings will be used for our up coming marriage. Thanks for all your responses!
23 Apr 08
i think he loves you a lot even though you have a problem regarding on living with him is not a problem at all coz he can wait for you to leave happily together someday thats why he do that. he cares for your future a lot and even for you. me to i will do it for my girl friend coz i want to have a good and steady relationship with no financial problem or what so ever. tell him you love him so much...
23 Apr 08
I find it admirable that he has the sense to realize that he has to save for the future. I don't agree with you having to add cash to help him replace his phone though. You 2 should have discussions on how you are going to handle money after you get married so that you don't end up having fights over it afterwards..
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23 Apr 08
If I were to make it with someone that long. I would feel the money would be ok to give to him. You said he is saving up his money. I think that is wonderful of him to do. He lost his phone it was not like he wanted a new phone. I would help him in any way I could. I hope he has a new phone by now.