Have you tried EB(eyeball) with your chat mates?

i just did that once, but not a chatmate, but a textmate. i reside in cebu while she was from cavite. well, our first meeting was very memorable. that was only in one day, and we're together for almost 7 hours. we met again after one year... that our second meeting was the most memorable... she may not forget me for the rest of her life... but, she still has a part in my heart...

Not really sure what you mean by 'eyeball', but I'm assuming from the rest of your post that you mean meeting somebody in person that you met on the internet. Yes, I have met some of my friends from off the internet. Safety? I think it's ok to meet with people after you've talked to them for quite a while, but only if the meeting takes place in a public place like a Starbucks, coffee shop, or something like that. To protect yourself, never give information as to where you live, or information that could lead them to where you live. I chose a McDonald's by the freeway when I would meet somebody for the first time, it's a very public place, and I had a friend elsewhere to make sure I was ok. My theory is that just because we chat with somebody on the internet, you still really don't know them at all. Too many know how to 'play' people and turn out not to be the nice people who you are led to believe they are. Almost each and every chat mate I've met are exactly who they said they were, and we are still friends. I love to meet my chat mates here and there, but safety is the uppermost concern when dealing with people you meet over the computer.

yes i did but local chatmate. I never have foreign chatmate. Eyeball is one way of getting to know each other if you are mean to each other so why not engage in married or further relationship. Don't close the door maybe he is not the right one. Learn to wait,at your unexpected to time he may come.