am i a toliet tissue??
April 25, 2008 5:18am CST
sometime i'm totally wonder about my status to all my friends.. i do treat them very nice.. help them when they r in trouble.. lend my money, my room.. but finally, when they have something good to be shared, i'm totally being ignored.. and sometimes, they inored me when they r with their boyfreind.. argghh. so pressure
25 Apr 08
Well there are two possible explanations... one is either you are expecting too much from them and you should be less demanding.,, the other is that maybe they are just taking advantage of your helpful nature and they are so not see you as much of a friend... I wouldn't want to say that they don't see you as a friend, so I would prbably say that maybe you are expecting too much from them... Just because you are friends it doesnt' mean that you must be together all the time... Sometimes people need privacy and they have the need to meet new people as well!! Anywa, I wish you all the best and hope your friendship grows stronger
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25 Apr 08
Sometimes it can be hard and frustrating when you do nice things for your friends and it goes unrecognized. But one thing that helps me is to look at it in a way that can help me get closer to God. If I offer up the things I do that don't get noticed, it can help me to still love them and not get upset.