am i a toliet tissue??

Malaysia
April 25, 2008 5:18am CST
sometime i'm totally wonder about my status to all my friends.. i do treat them very nice.. help them when they r in trouble.. lend my money, my room.. but finally, when they have something good to be shared, i'm totally being ignored.. and sometimes, they inored me when they r with their boyfreind.. argghh. so pressure
5 responses
@rombi001 (943)
25 Apr 08
Well there are two possible explanations... one is either you are expecting too much from them and you should be less demanding.,, the other is that maybe they are just taking advantage of your helpful nature and they are so not see you as much of a friend... I wouldn't want to say that they don't see you as a friend, so I would prbably say that maybe you are expecting too much from them... Just because you are friends it doesnt' mean that you must be together all the time... Sometimes people need privacy and they have the need to meet new people as well!! Anywa, I wish you all the best and hope your friendship grows stronger
• Malaysia
26 Apr 08
honestly, for the 5 years, i never hope or epcet anything from them.. friends we do everything sincerely.. but atleats we should have a respect for each other right? is all about respect.
@rombi001 (943)
26 Apr 08
you are right... respect and honesty!! Well I don't know what the situation is... But I am sure if they are your real frieds they will realise that they need to change... Maybe you should talk to them about it.
@Sir_bobby88 (8245)
• Singapore
26 Apr 08
well i can see that kind of people is simply toying friendship and just using you . But don't worry since you know they are like that just ignore them , i believe you will finally find a true friend yea .
• United States
25 Apr 08
Sometimes it can be hard and frustrating when you do nice things for your friends and it goes unrecognized. But one thing that helps me is to look at it in a way that can help me get closer to God. If I offer up the things I do that don't get noticed, it can help me to still love them and not get upset.
@rhane7315 (5674)
• Philippines
25 Apr 08
well i guess, they only use you for their own good and nothing else. i also think that thy don't treat you as their friend either. if they really appreciates all the things that you have done to them then they won't treat you that way.
@subha12 (18462)
• India
25 Apr 08
i think its the way with most kind peopel. i have also experienced a lot of them. when the need me, they are just behind me. when they are not, they will not bother to call me.