Pet peeves in relationships

Have you told him out straight that these things annoy you? You may only see them as little problems now, but over the years they will really start to grate on you. Better off getting them sorted now. My boyfriend doesn't do anything particularly annoying, except for the fact he does not put enough effort into his education and I find myself stressing more over him than I do over myself. It won't ruin our relationship, because all the exams will be over in a month and a bit.

well I completed 11yrs this 23rd and by this time I know that try as much as I would want to, things are not going to change in my favour. Here goes my list: 1. Snoring at night. OMG … this is so big an irritant, specially after a particularly tiring day that many times I have actually thought of separate bedrooms. But have not had the heart to do it really (typically womanish sentiments). I have literally pushed him off the bed many times (he's a deep sleeper) and wanted to physically drag him to the doc (if I could i.e.) but nothing has happened and situation remains same. In summer, with the fan whirring above, I just manage a light slumber, but in winter, its really so worse as to warrant a divorce for the winter months at least. 2. Following me in the kitchen when I am particularly very busy and wanting to offload his day just then and there. He can't wait, he WONT wait. I have cut my finger, burnt my skin and dropped dishes while trying to look interested but he has not changed. And the worse part is that he wants me to look at him while listening. Just imagine, as if I have eyes in every direction of my overburdened head. 3. The above was for night (after the day was over). Now this is for the morning, just after I have seen off my son to school and want to sit with the newspaper and a cup of tea. In comes my hubby dear with his cup and his tale of the day to begin. MAN!!! I have actually thrown the paper on the floor on occassions, gulped my tea and walked out. Does he change??? You know the answer. But (like you) I love him to pieces.

I have been married for 15 years. My marriage is not as perfect as yours but I try to live with it. I don't like it when he shouts. Like when he is driving and this other driver did something wrong he will shout at them and say bad words when they won't even be able to hear him because they are both driving a moving vehicle. It just annoys me because the kids hear him. Also when he's at home doing nothing and tell his kids to do things when he should be doing it. Anyways, there is more where that come from I don't want to say much but I guess you're luckier than I am.

Well i'm glad I am not the only one. He will turn on the light and ask if I am sleeping. years ago he would jump on the bed on me when I was a sleep knowing I had to wake up in a few hours to go to work and It would put me in shock that I would cry and not let him know and he would be mad that I was a sleep its like he thinks I don't need sleep or something. I wonder if he knows I am human. lol

ok so now we know his faults what about yours the ones he sees? every one has faults or things that drives us batty.its the little things that gets us the most. You have to pick and choose your battles because if we fussed about every little detail no one could live with you or satisfy you. its what you can put up with that matters

There are several small things that annoy me but I don't really care because I'm not perfect either. What really bugs me is that he gets very talkative and/or pushy after a couple of drinks and gets easily annoyed if I don't comply. Usually he's considerate enough but when tipsy,my partner might go in the bedroom at 4 am and start a discussion the depth of which could put all of us here on MyLot to shame lol It's also not very funny when he's jamming to some rock while I'm trying to sleep. I'm positive that needs to be changed and I don't like it a bit

my hubby has ADHD and can't concentrate at all... he tends to forget things very easily... things that i told him to do and the next minute he will forget about it... urghhh, i am so mad sometimes because he doesn't make any effort to remember and can only say sorry everytime... sorry, i forget... excuse me, sorry is an easy word to say... but if you had hurt people's feelings and did not do something important and bear a great consequences, what can you do???

I have noticed the longer people are together the more little things bug them about their spouse. When my husband and I were just teenagers in love nothing annoyed us about the other. Now it seems we find something new everyday to pester the other.

Thats funny you just described me I do the same things to my hubby and it drives him crazy lol. But what drives me crazy is when he will bring a snack to bed. Not only do I have to listen to him chomping away but then you got the bag crinkling and crumbs in the bed oh drives me crazy.

i am not into any relationship. but i think few guys have this atitude. they do not think what teh other person may not like at that point of time. have a clear chat with him.

I had to really think about this one lol. I could give you a list 5 miles long of things that bugged me about my ex-husband, hmmm maybe that's why he's an ex LOL However, after thinking about it, the only thing my s/o does that bugs me, is, he will not wake me up, even if I want to get up early, or like if I'm taking a nap, he would let me just go on sleeping for hours, which if I do then I won't sleep good at night. I know, not really anything that I can't live with. Other than that, there really isn't anything that he does that bugs me.

Oh yeah, there are some pet peeves of my husband's that drive me up a wall! But I find that it's that way with my close friends too. I think it just comes with being close to someone and spending a lot of time with them. My husband is constantly caring his throat and it drives me crazy! Sometimes I just yell at him to stop it and he doesn't even realize he is doing it. There aren't any "deal breaking" pet peeves though. Just little things that get on my nerves when we spend too much time together. They are all things I can get over, I love him more than his pet peeves annoy me.

Ok so you are married to,"a Great Guy!" and you,"love him to pieces!" and you have," so much fun together!" Would you say that "you love him unconditionally and absolutely?" If you Can and Do say That, Here is something that you may not have considered before.~ Unconditional and Absolute Love demands Absolutely Nothing!~ Meaning- You love this guy so much that Nothing Else Matters! Now isn't that a Lovely Thought?

yes I am currently battling when you shave clean the sink out thing! he doesnt get it and Its been almost two years. Also in the morning if he's awake he thinks I need to be awake . And I dont like it when he leaves his coke cans or whatever laying around etc. Any suggestions? I feel your aggravation!