Why people cheat on their partners?

@trusko (198)
April 28, 2008 4:25pm CST
If you are in a relationship, then surely you are in that relationship for a reason. If you want to sleep with other people, why would you be in a relationship? I have always believed, that if you love somebody, you wouldn't cheat on the person you love. But I know a lot of people out there do cheat. I always try to listen to other's point of view and why would they do it. What makes people cross that line? Some people "blame it" on a drink. Some people just simple gave in to the tempation. Or is it just simple in us? Thanks for your opinions ;-)
5 responses
@minnie_98214 (10557)
• United States
28 Apr 08
Well I think that sometimes in a relationship you can begin to feel neglected and love the attention of someone else. I am not saying it is okay to cheat just what can make a person want to cheat. You gotta talk thru it with your partner how you feel not cheat but it can be hard.
@trusko (198)
28 Apr 08
I can appreciate that. But if your partner is saying they love you and you do give them attention they deserve and they still go out and cheat, that is what I don't understand. Thank you for your opinion ;-)
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• United States
28 Apr 08
I guess its that whole the grass is always greener on the other side. I dont get it at all either.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
29 Apr 08
The cheater finds more emotional security in the other. Triggers may vary.
@trusko (198)
29 Apr 08
Thank you for your response ;-)
@jhl930 (3601)
• United States
28 Apr 08
i completely agree with you i mean honestly i think that if your going to be in a relationship thats what you should be in a relationship with that one person and not go out and flirt or whatever with other women...i mean i have known a lot of peopel that have cheated in the past and there is never a good reason for doing it no matter what they try and say in my opinion...i think that you should always be faithful to the one person that you are in the relationship with...
@trusko (198)
28 Apr 08
Thank you for your response. It's nice to hear from people with similar opinions ;-)
@busta1baby (1230)
• United States
28 Apr 08
i have no idea but y do it...lol...just leave ur partner..lol
@trusko (198)
28 Apr 08
Thanks ;-)
• United States
28 Apr 08
It's not good to cheat on your partner in the first place. If you truly love them, you would know that they are the only one for you.
@trusko (198)
28 Apr 08
Thanks for your response ;-)