Sometimes you can't stop your tears falling from your eyes.

@ozzeth (942)
Philippines
April 28, 2008 9:35pm CST
You promised yourself not to cry. You hated yourself when you start to cry. You want to stop it but you cant stop your tears to fall down from your eyes. Your heart aching and sometimes you don't understand yourself. You love someone but you are afraid the day will come he will just disappeared. You don't want to feel that way. It really suck sometimes... So...complicated, depressing, heartbreaking, hopeless.. You try to hide it and try to smile, to laugh, to talk funny, to make friends..and etc..inorder to rid of it. But sometimes it's really hard to do it. Do you feel the same as like this? Is it suck, right?
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21 responses
@modelit (54)
30 Apr 08
Crying is already stick to the human. We cry for sadness even in happiness. It's suck sometimes but our emotions have the right to express on that way. Crying can help to relief what we feel inside.
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@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
30 Apr 08
you have a point too! you are right our emotions have the right to express it
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• United States
29 Apr 08
yes it does suck thers times i wanna just go climb in a dark corner and just cry the pain sometimes is very hard to endure after awhile but if he was gone it would hurt not to have his presence but on the other hand how many mor nights do you have to cry
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@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
30 Apr 08
you have the point.
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@youless (94336)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Apr 08
I have experienced this so many times. It can't stop the tears to shed when you are feeling sad. So usually when I feel like crying, I will find a place to hide myself, such as in the bathroom. I don't want to cry in public and I don't want anybody knows it. I love China
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@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
30 Apr 08
Same here!
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29 Apr 08
I used to keep everything bottled up and locked away deep inside myself, preserving a solid hard exterior to hide the hurt and pain within. I found out the hard way that this will only make you feel worse and that tears need to be shed. Let is out, cry, let the tears flow until you feel better, and to heck with anyone who thinks that you should hide your tears.
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@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
30 Apr 08
Well said recycledgoth!
@lingli_78 (12844)
• Australia
29 Apr 08
i perfectly understand what you mean... i feel like that too sometimes... i promise myself that i won't cry and i ended up crying for no reason... i just can't control it... i wish i can... but sometimes it just fall like that from my eyes before i can control it... i am just too sad or angry sometimes when that happens...
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@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
2 May 08
We hated ourself if we can't control it. We can't stop our emotions sometimes...We are human mean to feel the way how our emotions dictate us thru and by means of crying.
@sunita64 (6473)
• India
29 Apr 08
Exactly same thing I felt and happened to me when my marriage was breaking , I tried hard not to cry but was unable to stop myself crying , god knows from where all the tears came. Thank god the turmoil ended. same thing happened when my father passed away, I was going home by train and however I tried tears did'nt stop. Well some moments are like that in life one can't help it at all.
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@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
1 May 08
I know what you feel..But atleast you made it. You blew it out than never..
@melken (15)
29 Apr 08
Yes my tears easily falls down, sometimes for no reasons.It is really sad to know that your tears are falling down when you are watching some dramatic scene on a television.And what ashame if your tears fall for when someone is just joking around how much more if someone breaks your heart.
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@jesbellaine (4157)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
Oh, you are not alone... It happened to me as well. Sometimes, I feel so lonely with situations that I can't control then suddenly I would start crying eventhough I don't want to. It is out of the blue. So hard to hide what my feelings especially when I feel really really sad.
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@athinapie (1151)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
i totally understand what you are trying to say. but it is best not to stop yourself from crying. by doing so would make you hurt more and stress you out more and it would do more worse than the pain that you are feeling. it's okay to cry, it doesn't make you less of a person.
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@dpk262006 (56563)
• Delhi, India
29 Apr 08
Dear, it is all part of the game. Everyone will separate from us, one by one. The one who has come into our life would definitely go one day. Considering that everyone of near and dear one will one day leave us or vice versa, we should enjoy our moments to be spent with him her, as much as possible. Tears falling from our eyes is a very natural phenomenon, which we feel depressed or sad about anything. Tears falling from our eyes do help us relieving our pent up emotions and help us rejuvenate ourselves. When I find that I just cannot express some very deep pent up emotions to anyone, I just cry in isolation and thereafter I feel better. An excellent Post!
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@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
Well said again!
@dpk262006 (56563)
• Delhi, India
29 Apr 08
I value your compliments very much, honestly, it motivates me.
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@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
Oh..it makes me blush! I am very honored of having you around and everytime you appreciated my post deepak! Your a great writer so...i feel so applaused to myself everytime you like my post. I really appreciated it.
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@nengs10 (3188)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
This happens naturally. I can't stop my tears to fall down whenever my emotion is really intense. It could be extreme happiness, sadness, surprise, etc. Crying is not a sin nor a bad thing to do for me. I like doing it sometimes.
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@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
30 Apr 08
yeah your right. It's not a sin to cry..We have the right to do it. It's our emotions that evolve around us.
@xParanoiax (6998)
• United States
29 Apr 08
I have felt like this before. For years in fact. Yes, it does suck alot heh.
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@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
yeah, it's suck!
• India
29 Apr 08
Life do sucks at times but life is still beautiful.When emotions fill me up i cant help but cry but i cry mostly when i am alone out of sight.but cryin is not bad at all,afterall it calms u down.Try going to an isolated place n scream n shout and cry and vent out ur feelings and trust me, u feel much better--i just did that n now m better.and remember nothing lasts forever...Take care
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@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
yeah, you are right and i agree with you.
@subha12 (18453)
• India
29 Apr 08
yes it happens. sometimes despite all the trying, you can't control the tears. these take a toll on you. the heart is so emotional that you end up crying a lot.
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@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
yeah, sometimes we can't really stop to cry. so, lets just let it fall. Afterwards, we will be getting more better.
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
I do feel the same. It's not bad to cry, it's some kind of expressing what you feel. Whenever I feel like crying for example after an argument with my husband, I just lock myself in my room and never let my kids see me crying.
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@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
I really try not to cry infront of anyone. I hold it and find a place that i can blew it out! huhuhu. well, i just dont want them to feel any pityness from me just because im crying..
@Breath (1297)
• United States
29 Apr 08
I really try not to let people see me cry.Even though I am a very open person I tend to shy away from crying in front of anyone.I some how hold back the tears until I am alone then I cry like a river out of control...
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@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
yeah, same here..
@jhl930 (3605)
• United States
29 Apr 08
i use to feel that way whene i was younger...i mean i would try so hard not to cry whenever i was younger and something happened like i got hurt or something liek that and i was a guy so i wasn't going to let my other friends see me because then i would have paid for it lol but i couldn't always hold it in adn sometimes it just came out of no where...
@ozzeth (942)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
There's nothing wrong about it. What about if your a guy? Your still a human that can cry....It makes your more a MAN.
@tjades (3592)
• Jamaica
8 May 08
My reasons for crying like this so far as not been due to any relationship problems. I just cry too easily. It is a trait i inherited as my father was not afraid to cry and even though my mom plays tough she cries easily too. My siblings also cry easily. I just hate it when peolple see me crying and i have tried hard over the years to break that tendency. I hate to see others hurt and cry. The tears just well up and overwhelm me and once they start its as if theres no stopping them. I end up crying harder sometimes because I am angry that I started to cry in the first place. It can be so frustrating. (lol)
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@rhane7315 (5673)
• Philippines
8 May 08
yeah i feel just like that sometimes especially if it really hurts me. i'm always telling myself that i'm strong and that i won't cry anymore but i would just find out that my tears starts pouring on that moment, i don't even know what to do lol
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@zed_k4 (17627)
• Singapore
8 May 08
I have these moments before but not now that I've started to become a man ever since. I think it would be a more difficult part for a guy to cry rather than a woman. But if you ask me personally, there's really nothing wrong in crying and facing the truth or crying for knowing the truth. Whenever I'm so sad, I prefer to keep quiet and just do my own things. I just keep reminding myself that life is fragile and so are people. (say someone or more have hurt my feelings). It's good to pour your heart out.