face the fact!

India
May 4, 2008 12:55am CST
hey guys have u ever figured out why cant we express much when we are in the front of the person u like but we can express everything when we are chatting,through emails or through sms! face to face conversations are said to b more effective in terms of expression... but i figured out it does not works for me..!! and not for my friends either...! i wonder what could be the problem bihind it???
4 responses
• United States
4 May 08
This is because when you aren't face to face you don't have to see the person. When you don't have to look at someone's face it's easy to talk freely. I am the same way. I can talk more and be more open to people when I am not face to face with them.
• India
4 May 08
then why wud every1 say tht face to face communication is more expressive than other forms??? i m more expressive wen i m not in front of tht person!
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• United States
4 May 08
I couldn't answer that question. I never thought face to face was better.
• United States
4 May 08
face to face is so much better whenever i talk to my bf on aim i use to always interpret evrything in my own way, for instance if he doesnt say i love you too or if he doest talk much i can invent the idea that he doesnt like me anymore...which is completly absurd..and dangerous. we broke up just because i was deducing things from a conversation..haha im really trying to get rid of that habit , it always gets me into trouble..and im always hurting my boyfriend
@tdh0218 (164)
• China
4 May 08
when you talk to the person who you like, i think you want to tell her things which are true or before you talk,you will supose what you said effecting to her.so you can't talk fluently.
@ruth16 (81)
• India
4 May 08
it could be due to shyness ..it used to happen quite often for me but i've got over it..it was really hard but it's much better to express ourselves freely