Can you called this LOVE?
May 4, 2008 2:48am CST
I just want to know your view on this..Hoping you can explain it to me.. A man say's to you that he love's you.. but he feel some confusions about you..Can this be called as love? Love is not to feel any confusions or doubtiness. Love is can't be measured of anything..There are different reasons and circumstances that person feel confusions to his feelings with someone. One reason is.. this person is NO TRUST on you. How could this person say's he loves you that he don't even trust you? How could this person say's the words " I LOVE YOU" if this person feel bit confuse? I don't understand... I am now confuse of this thing..I don't know..how could it be?..
4 May 08
I think that depends on what kind of confusions.Can someone define the exact meaning of love?I doubt.Love is complicated,sometimes we are confused about love,we don't even know what's love.He might has some confusions about that person,but that doesn't mean he doesn't love that person.Sometimes we love someone,but we don't even realize it.Just give him some time,he will figure it out. Truely love is about to have trust,if you don't trust a person,then you shouldn't say that you love him/her.
4 May 08
maybe he just considering some things, he might not be confuse to his feeling but in his self, some guys were like that they know there inlove to the woman but there are things bothering their mind.. it can be the thought that his love will never be in return or they are just afraid to go on a commitment.. just give him time to think so he can realize his real feelings..
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10 May 08
I believe trust is a totally different issue from love. Sometimes another person does not have a legitimate reason to trust another and sometimes it is that other person's problem-not yours. I can say that I don't think that any one of us is 100% trustworthy all the time. No one is, otherwise we would be God. (Despite my rather screwed-up morals I still believe in him.) I watched a movie once...and duh if I could remember the name of it I would tell you. I think it was Two Girls and a Guy or something like that... It turns out all of them had no idea the other was cheating. And in the end the two that were most in love just said this: regardless of whether we can trust each other there...(and that is all I can remember). Basically it is about regardless of whether you can trust someone you can love that person. So my opinion is that trust is separate from love. Whether or not a person's mistrust of another is justified it doesn't matter. Trust is separate from love. It is must easier to have a trusting relationship without love. However, I think it is also possible to love a person you don't trust.
10 May 08
love has different mode,it comes in several way.for man to female only now i am telling.pity on her,kindness on her,of her beauty,her states.her family,.her attitude, her voice, her style of walk, her laugh, her songs,her shape of her body, her attitude in personal behaviour ,her writings.her attitude if behaving and her politeness,her hospitality.
5 May 08
i think this may not be the true love, actually true love do not say that one should be confused about the love. may be its easy to tell that the man loves you. its hard to be attached to the words.the main point in loving is trust. without trust there is nothing.
4 May 08
I think to be frank, he's studying you instead of saying " i love you" as we say "love" is blind, it overlooks all errors and distrust. if you love someone the whole world can be against you but you wouldn't care. it's a force of nature that defies all gravity. if you love a person it's that you want to make everything right. correct the mistakes and not try to find fault.