abortion

Philippines
May 4, 2008 8:13am CST
i know of a lady friend who had an abortion... because she was raped by an unknown guy, he didnt even know... then she got pregnant from the rapist...is abortion o.k if you were in her situation? for me its anti life... let the child be born and have it adopted instead...what do you think?
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@teison2 (5924)
• Norway
4 May 08
I think it is up to the woman in question. I think it is very anti-life to rape someone. I also think it is very anti-life to have people live with pain and suffering for years and years. If the woman in question feels she made the right decition it was the right decition. And, yes, it is ok.
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@tonibabe (189)
4 May 08
personally i hate abortion it may be as me and my husband cant have children and i have always wanted them so much! so i think they should be happy to be able to have children and not kill their unborn children! but in situations like that i understand that it is a hard decision and they will have to live with it for the rest of their lives so i will not judge people for it! everyone will feel differently about it and people have to be happy with their lives and what ever they choose to do!
• United States
5 May 08
I don't think it's fair for you to say you hate abortion because you can't have kids. That all women should be grateful for the ability to reproduce. As jealous as you may be of fertile women, I bet there are childfree women who are just as jealous of you. Wanting children is entirely a personal opinion and choice. It's not fair for you to try to impose your opinion on others like that.
@tonibabe (189)
5 May 08
i said how i feel about it but i also said that everyone will feel different about it and can do what ever they want im not forcing my opinion on anyone! i just said that i hate it but people have to be happy with there decision and im not going to judge them! whats wrong with that its just my opinion no one has to agree with me
@magrylouyu (1632)
• United States
4 May 08
I dont believe that it's okay. I think they should just put the baby up for adoption or just keep the baby. The baby didnt do anything wrong. I would be scared for a disease but the female already has whatever he had. Personally I would probably just end up keeping the baby.
• Philippines
11 May 08
true, lets be morally upright, being selfish is evil... letting some creature die without any cause is indeed bad..even if an unborn baby.. who does not know anyting what had happen...
@kezabelle (2985)
4 May 08
Abortion is not for me but it has its place and I think what ever reason a woman decides to have an abortion then that right for them and they shouldnt be judged for it. I supported a friend through an abortion despite being against them myself I actually recognise a persons free right to make their own choices and i was there for her my feelings didnt matter in that situation hers did and she needed my support. So I guess really I dont think others opinions come into wether an abortion is right or not, if its right for the girl/woman at the time then that makes it right, and I think its easy to say have it adopted that is just as hard a choice to make being pregnant is not easy and neither would handing a baby over be easy so they choose the choice thats right for them
• Philippines
11 May 08
pre truma after abortion is hard to accept sometimes the woman who had an abortion without realizing would one day affect them...so is karma....
@ellie26 (4128)
• Malaysia
4 May 08
I think abortion is murder. Whether one has conceived the baby willingly or unwillingly, that is not the issue. The point is there is a new life about to be born into this world. Abortion is merciless killing.
• Philippines
11 May 08
yes indeed its merciless killing....the baby in the womb is still a human being!
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