In deep thoughts...
By vonn1378
@vonn1378 (706)
Philippines
May 5, 2008 3:48am CST
Been on the right side but not been happy for so many years. And now I'm following my heart's desire to someone who really worth risking for. Years had passed and tried hard to save the relationship but only wasting my time. Been with someone that only thinks of him self and not caring what tomorrow will be...
So hard to explain but heart's saying danggit I'm tired of waiting. Trying so hard but wasting my time.But lucky still for have someone worth risking for and waited for so long. I know it's not an easy journey but I'll still try for I know happiness will follow after.
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@Jabsfreelanceworld (191)
• United States
10 May 08
All I can say is I hear ya. I just hope you are not yet married because it would be easier to get out. If you don't want to be with this person any more and you see no hope...then I think the best thing to so is tell the person and let go.
I think you would not be in the wrong if you tell the person and you decide it is over with for good. I realize dating before your divorce is final is a grey area, and that you can only decide for your self.
However, as long as you are honest with your partner I see no reason why you cannot just move on. This can be a difficult thing to do. However, if it is what you need to do then just do it I guess.
I am saying this because I am in a similar situation. I struggle because I fight like cat and dogs with my current lover (man and I am woman) and I would so so sad to let him go, but sometimes wonder if it would be for the best.
I honestly sometimes think he would be happier without me. (Then again I am considering just seeing more than one person for awhile, and I am planning on telling him that.)
@Jabsfreelanceworld (191)
• United States
10 May 08
von1378 replied to my discussion and I can say I hear ya...
I am wondering what your exact situation is?
It depends upon what you mean by he won't let you go? Sometimes I feel like that but I do know that if I were to really want to end it with this person he would leave me alone.
As far as your situation...well...are you saying this person you are with would be abusive or stalk you if you try to let that person go? In that case I'd say you have a problem. A serious problem that could even involve the cops.
@agfarm (930)
• United States
5 May 08
Dear Vonn......Love, true love endures all things.
If you're having a rough spot ( we all do ) Think back to the very beginning of your relationship. Why did you Fall in love in the first place?
Obviously....if this person's behavior has changed in such a manner as that you feel threatned....then it's time to consider other measures.
But as a Saggittarius ( I know this sounds Crazy , believe me )
I am inclined to aim my arrows at the sun.
Meaning......I will look for something positive to Cling to when a rough spot happens. " Life is Messy " you're bound to have times when you're not happy.
But if the foundation of your Relationship is Rock-Solid. If abouve all else you were real friends before getting Married.......Then true love will conquer all. HAng in there.....True love endures all things.
Including.....Flatulence. ( I'm sorry....I don't know where that came from )
@vonn1378 (706)
• Philippines
10 May 08
Thanks Agfarm, that's inspiring and you're right life is messy most of the time and all we can do is find the love to go on. That's why i'm following my heart no matter what it takes because I know the person I'm inlove with is worth taking tyhe risk.
@positiveminded1977 (7072)
• India
5 May 08
Wow, I am totally confused. What exactly is up? You sound loaded with emotion, and this looks as if you are trying to write poem. Put in simple English, do you mean that you are in love with a guy and he is a bit difficult, but still you will try to make the relationship work because you know it will lead to bliss?
well, well, wish you luck!!
Cheers and happy mylotting!
@sanz_eight (61)
• Philippines
6 May 08
It's not impossible to wait, even for years. but be sure that the person is worth it.
