relationship

India
May 5, 2008 10:02pm CST
hi friends...i am a bit stuck up.I have been with my boyfriend for three months.This is the first proper relationship that i have ever had,and he is the first guy i have ever loved.well...friends as i loved him very much so i wanted to tell everything about me of my past.so...one day on saturday when we both had got drunk and sober and somehow as we both managed to reach home when suddenly the topic started and i told him everything about me and my past.I have no idea how this happened because i had no intention of telling him about everything-not just yet anyways.but now i can see the changed attitude of my boyfriend as he is not as loving as he was before.Now he also does not care about me as he used to do so earlier.Friends please do help me out. thanx in advance
5 responses
• United States
9 May 08
You shouldn't feel bad for your spilling your past out to him. If he truelly loves you he wouldn't have a change of heart or attitude but love you as much as he did befor you told him about your past. Try to talk to him for maybe it's not you that has his change of attitude maybe something else is getting to him but you just think it's you and seeing he is around you alot you will see something is wrong and just think it's you. I hope you two can work everything out and all be ok. It sounds like you really love this guy and want him to stick around for a long time. Talk to him it couldn't hurt. Good Luck.
• India
6 May 08
Hi tripta, sorry to read this. Without knowing the ins and outs of your case, it is very difficult to say anything. Why did your boyfriend cool off suddenly? Is your past that terrible? If it is, you have yourself to blame. And if it isn't, then forget about him. He is not worth it. I am sure you will find someone much better than that.
@subha12 (18453)
• India
6 May 08
i think it was an accident from your part. just keep mum. if he is not taht much loving, try to talk with him frankly. try to find out whether he is truly upset. confront him that it is past.
@AnakSuNamun (2084)
• United States
6 May 08
I don't really know what to tell you but I feel you in this situation. Of course,it's great to be honest and open but truth does hurt sometimes and some things better be untold. Life happens and he might feel hurt or disappointed now but hopefully,with time he'll understand that nobody's perfect and we all make mistakes. Wish you best luck!
@jesbellaine (4157)
• Philippines
6 May 08
Hi THere. maybe he was just shocked of the things that you just bursted out when you were both drunk. Just give him space to think. If you think it is too long then you need to talk to him about both of your feelings. I hope you will both be okay soon. Cheers