Are you in love?
5 Nov 06
If you have to ask, you are not in love. I've had 2 relationships exactly like that, the gals kept saying they loved me, and I felt very uncomfortable saying it back, but I really liked them and cared for them, so I was confused. I was always asking family what they thought. Then I met my fiance, I ended up being the first to say I love you. I NEVER felt the need to ask anyone what they thought again. I had no doubts. She has flaws, everybody does, but I felt I could live the rest of my life with those flaws, they don't bother me at all. We're still together, going on since 4 years and I still feel that cuddly cozy feeling with her. So don't worry yourself, just enjoy the relationship even if it isn't love, but don't lead her on. In other words, don't say I love you if you don't really mean it.
• United States
6 Nov 06
YES!! I met a wonderful guy at Cub Scout camp last weekend. Who would have guessed that we'd go from roasting marshmallows over an open fire to being completely head over heels in love with each other!! I am completely amazed that all of this has happened in a week!!! We live about 2 hours away but he came to see me the other night and we had the best time. He's such a gentleman. Like no one I've ever known. He's 3 months older than me, we have almost everything in common, we are both single parents of little boys and the list goes on and on! Okay, I'll shut up now. I get started and don't know when to stop! :-)