is there love after marrage?

@dantakum (404)
Nigeria
May 8, 2008 7:59am CST
at first you loved each other,then you where not living together for you to know all the hiden habits or caracters,when you marry each other and live in the same house,room and same bed,things you nver know about your partner would be reveild or starts coming up and for the narriage you cant call it off but hang on. So, is there any love after marriage or is it only Tolorant?
5 responses
• Egypt
8 May 08
I gree with you that you will find some things in your partner differs after marriage. But if you love her you will love these things or at least don't feel sad. If you feel sad or hate these things this means that you wasn't in true love
@dantakum (404)
• Nigeria
21 Jul 08
thanks for your respones. take care.
@tarachand (3895)
• India
8 May 08
Yes there definitely is love after marriage. I agree that by living together as husband and wife, one finds the flaws in the other, but at the same time, i think that one also finds the hidden beauty in the partner at the same time, and hence maybe come even closer. True love is loving despite the known and unknown flaws. As far as tolerance is concerned, that is an attribute that must be practiced in any relationship, whether that as a spouse or as a lover, as a parent, as a child, as a friend, as an adversary, for that relationship to succeed.
@dantakum (404)
• Nigeria
21 Jul 08
hmm thats nice but it will take more effort to love after the marriage.take care.
@chiaro (2)
• India
8 May 08
answer is simple u tolerate because u love u will not tolerate somebody whom u don't love
@dantakum (404)
• Nigeria
8 May 08
you may tolerate cos you dont want to lose, some think of the money they spent before the marriage for that they may tolerate,i guess but not sure
@danoluma (817)
• Kenya
8 May 08
Yes there is love after marriage but there is a lot of tolerance too. There many things unknown to you about the character of your spouse, they only reveal after you start staying together and some you might not like and so you have to tolerate But most important is there is love
@dopey22girl (3327)
• United States
8 May 08
I think there's a kind of love but it's not the kind of love that a marriage should be about. If that makes sense lol....I think you love the person more as a friend than as a husband or wife...