do think its ok if married women have friends?

United States
November 1, 2006 7:42pm CST
i think its alright but my husband dont think so..
9 responses
@eoconn03 (152)
• United States
2 Nov 06
Are you kidding? He doesnt think it is right for you to have friends? What is wrong with him? What does he want you to do just have him and no one else? I think that is out of line. We all need friends. I think you need to tell him to shove it and you need to get yourself friends. I might be bias, because my fiance is in the military and when he is deployed the only thing that keeps me sane is our friends! But I think everyone married or singe, needs friends.
• United States
2 Nov 06
i am way younger than him and he think i need friends his age, but they are seem to boring to me.. even though we have a baby and i just stay home all the time .. he thinks that thats just life.. but it sucks sometimes now to be able to pick the phone up and call soemone to hang out with or chitchat..i have one good male friend my age and he freaks when i talk to him..lol
@oresal (1350)
• El Salvador
2 Nov 06
Yes! who r u? u dont let ur wife have friends?
@maddog108 (3435)
• Australia
2 Nov 06
life without friends is pritty glum your husband sounds like a control freak tell him you are going to have friends anyway
• India
2 Nov 06
There is nothing wrong in having friends. Every one has got right to have friends. why married women shouldn't have?. It is my opinion.
• United States
2 Nov 06
I couldn't imagine not having any friends. I have friends my age & some a little older. But my husband isn't all that much older than me. So we have a lot of couple friends that are around both our ages.
@manzician (4727)
• India
2 Nov 06
Ya... why now
@niitta (194)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 06
For me nothing wrong, as far as i know many mens are like that they don't like their wives have more friends. No matter how you try to explain to them still they do dot agree with you . This is their nature. The decision is in your hand ! All the best.
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
2 Nov 06
Be true to yourself! You deserve to have friends! My ex mother-in-laws husband was exactly like that for their whole marriage. 57 years later she still craves friends...I've never met a woman as lonely for women friends as much as her! I think it's way off base for another person to tell you that you cannot choose to have friends in your life. I think it is controlling, to say the very least. Perhaps he thinks that by having women friends it would open your eyes up, so that you would see the real person he is, and if that's the case maybe he does have something to worry about. Don't let his insecurities become your problem. When two people really love each other, they want them to be happy and to lead fulfilling lives. The only wish a request like that fulfills, is his own wish for you to be his alone, it does not fulfill your wishes at all.
@mawmawjo (19)
• United States
2 Nov 06
It is bad when a person is not secure enough in their self to act that way. Men and women can be friends with out anything going on. I have more friends who are men then women men.