Whoom you valuer more?

@as2006 (5041)
Israel
May 15, 2008 1:26pm CST
Whoom you valuer more mother or father?
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19 responses
@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
16 May 08
Hi as2006! I can't decide on who I value more if it is my father or my mother. I have held them both with much importance in my life that being one without the other makes my life incomplete. I love them both although they are not perfect. I value my mom because of her nurturing love and I value my father because of his wisdom. I value both because both have made me complete as I was growing up. Take Care and God Bless! Happy Mylotting!
@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
16 May 08
O.K.Thank's very much for response.
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@welshdai (77)
15 May 08
i would say i value my father more,because he was the one who raised me,did stuff for me,took me on holidays and still does me favours. sometimes it not right to said you value one parent more than the other but because i only know my dad and i know hear stories about my mother it harder to try at value her at all
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@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
16 May 08
I understand,thank you.
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@sunkissed (4332)
• United States
15 May 08
I always valued my mother and father the same, but when i was a child I could talk to my mother easier than I could to my dad, he was more quit than my dad was.He worked alot, so really we always went to my mother when we needed something. But when we grew up, I could go to either one of them when I needed advise or help.But my father passed away in 2000.I really do miss him.so now it is my mother that I go to.
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@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
16 May 08
It's very nice, thank you.
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• China
15 May 08
Mother
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@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
16 May 08
Thank you.
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@ryshawneo (405)
• Philippines
16 May 08
well, when I was a kid, I have never liked my mother.. But, now that I have my own family, have a son, I have realized how important she is to me.. Now, i realized and know how she feels before.. I love my mother now much that before.. :)
@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
16 May 08
Very nice,we became clever as adult,thank's for comment.
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@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
16 May 08
Well, my father passed away 20 years ago, and my mother just last week, but I still value them both equally. Though they are both gone from this world, the things that they taught me will be with me for a life time. They each taught me different things and some of the same things. I value them all.
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@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
16 May 08
Thank's for comment.
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@flowerchilde (12518)
• United States
16 May 08
..my mom.
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@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
16 May 08
O.K.Thank's.
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@mimico (3619)
• Philippines
16 May 08
That's a tough question. I'd say I value them both equally because they raised me together. While it is true that I spend more time with my mom by shopping together and doing girly stuff, it doesn't mean that my dad hasn't made a huge impact on my life just because he's always away at work. My dad taught me to be strong and to have good moral character. My mom is more pampering because she coddles me sometimes, so it's my dad who's the disciplinarian at home. In a way, I feel lucky to be loves equally by both my mom and my dad. Other families have one good parent and one bad parent or even 2 bad parents which is something that I do not want to deal with.
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@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
16 May 08
Good,thank's.
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@carolbee (16241)
• United States
17 May 08
Both my parents are deceased now but I had a better relationship with my father. He taught me so much about life and was a great role model. I still miss him and he's been gone about 15 years now. I was daddy's little girl since I was the baby and the only girl. Life goes on and my memories of him will always remain in my heart.
@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
17 May 08
Beautiful words, mostly girls have good relationship with fathers even they are very near to their parents.Thank's for comment.
@carolbee (16241)
• United States
17 May 08
I got along well with my mother but my dad was my real buddy. He always emotionally supported my decisions and was "there for me" when I needed a parent.
@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
17 May 08
I understand you very much I do the same with my son's, I'm alway's for them when they need me.I hope that they'll remember me as you do.Thank's.
• China
18 May 08
Hi as2006 Yes,it is really hard to say,who is my valued,my mother or my father,they are both helpful to me in my life,even now.I love them both,but I love talk with my mother about my study and life,so if i must choose one who i am valued,I choose my mother,thanks As2006 and take care )Peter
@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
18 May 08
O.K. You choose one even I'm sure that you love both of them,thank's very much for comment.
• China
18 May 08
Hi your discussion reminds me that I would go home and stay some days with my mother and my other family members,'COs have a long time did not see them.thanks :)
• United States
17 May 08
They are neck in neck. I feel exactly the same about both of them. When I was younger I was a daddy's girl.
@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
17 May 08
O.K.Thank's.
• United States
17 May 08
You're welcome.
@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
17 May 08
got to be the same for they both had you
@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
17 May 08
Thank's.
@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
18 May 08
your welcome
• Philippines
17 May 08
they are both important to my being
@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
17 May 08
Thank's for response.
• Philippines
17 May 08
welcome
@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
17 May 08
I dont value either of them..and have no reason to..They were and still are abusive ppl who by their actions and words over the course of my life made any chance of respect, love etc from me nonexistant
@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
17 May 08
Thank's for comment.
• India
17 May 08
i dont really know..i am a bit confused on this topic...very difficult to answer this question
@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
17 May 08
O.K.Thank's for trying.
@lkbooi (16101)
• Malaysia
17 May 08
Both my dad and my mom were the persons whom I respected the most. Though I loved both of them very much I found I still spend most of the time together with my dad as he was rather amiable and could tolerate my bad tempered behavior when I was younger. But sad that they had left me forever many years back.
@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
17 May 08
Thats the life,thank's for response.
• Philippines
17 May 08
ever since my parents separated my mom stood up as both my mother and father, though sometimes she gets on my nerves i still love her...
@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
17 May 08
O.K.Thank's.
• Canada
16 May 08
It's not a matter of valuing one more than another, it's a matter of the unique values they hold in my life. If one was so much more valuable than the other, I would not need two parents. The act is, they are both valuable to me in their own unique way.
@as2006 (5041)
• Israel
16 May 08
Very good,agree,thank's for comment.
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
17 Aug 10
I love both my parents, they play role model for me in their love, hardwork and responsibilites!