what should i do?

India
May 16, 2008 6:38am CST
i m 19 year old .... doing my degree studies. my yearly studies cost 2.50 lakh rupee n my dad's yearly salary is around 3 lakh rupee...... he needs to work extra hours to get extra money.........i m nt earning n is solely dependant on my father.... i wish to do sme work so tht i can support myselp n be of sme help to my father..... bt i cant make my self to talk to my him abt this..... the thing is here in india ,parents support their child financially til they r done wid their studies n find job....my father wants me to concentrate only on my studies n ll nt allow me to work.....bt i feel useless n find myself to be a big burden on family , it pain me to ask 4 money whn i myself s doing nothing to earn...........my father is compromising wid his health...work al day n night....take less sleep.....n s always in rush...tke no rest... i cant bear ths any longer....n wants to talk to him....bt am afraid tht he might nt allow me 2 work.........wat should i do??
3 responses
16 May 08
I would say concentrate on your studies and get good results and then you can repay your parents for all the sacrifices they have made on your behalf. Once you have good exam results that will help you find a better job with a salary to go with it. Don't forget to let us all know how you get on
• India
16 May 08
thank u so much 4 your advice......... i ll really concentrate.....thnx 4 motivation.
16 May 08
there are only so many hours in a day so don't try to do to many things otherwise your studies will suffer and then you will not get a good pass mark, this I feel really matters in today's world
@ameeluv (388)
• Saint Lucia
16 May 08
I would say jus go towork since you are so concerned about him... if he is really tired he would allow you but you can always finds something online to do..might not ay much but its a plus for u
• India
16 May 08
may be u r right.......bt i cant go 4 work without his permission n also dont want to disturb him emotionly.......may i should talk to him ...
• India
16 May 08
Well, If he is saying you to do concentrate on your study then why shouldn't you ? You should keep concetrating on your study and if you will get any problem with then take bank loan for study . If you have believe in yourself , then you can take it and I think only study can give you self confidence as you are a student .... Thanks .... Happy mylotting !!!
• India
16 May 08
thanks so much......i just always think abt him n m nt able to concentrate.....bt i think u r right...if i ll do gud in studies ,he ll be v happy...n may nt feel the money he is spending........thanks 4 the advice.