How do you cope with loneliness?

India
May 17, 2008 5:37am CST
I dont have any frendz in my personal life, no1 to share my joy, sadness, emotions with. Its so difficult, when you r left alone without any frendz. Lately, so many things have been happening to me, im overwhelmed by greif. I just cry out, not being able to take that pain any more, but i have no1 to share them with. I cant talk about all of these with my parents and the only other person is my 3 yr old son. I feel so lonely and i have a huge battle to fight ahead of me, no emotional comforters. My only comfort is prayer. The only time im happy is when i c my son and spend time with him. So how do you cope with troubles when ur lonely?
2 responses
• Philippines
17 May 08
your wrong we all have friends, for me you just not notice Him He's Jesus try to know him more you'll see in a process your not alone, i've been alone so many year but i realize i was jyst shy and afraid that people might hurt me like i was hurt before,i'd sing i even develop my talent and then share to others. you might only talking to your child but maybe in the days past yor now playing and talking to your neighboors children, try to listen to other s problem u'll see they have much heavy problem than you.Bless God.
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
17 May 08
i cope up by praying...you have your child, it means you are not alone. just try to look for an outlet like make poems or making drawings or any hobby!try to read bible. God will never leave you! GOD BLESS!
• India
18 May 08
Thank you nighangel and roanne for ur response. I do read the bible and aslo accept christ as my saviour. Just that i wish i had a frend too to keep building up muy faith and hope. I always say prayer is my only comfort...
• Philippines
18 May 08
and soon continous prayer and reading and obeyng His command u'll able to hear also His voice.dont worrry God Loves you so much.
@wasim989 (2298)
• India
17 May 08
Why don't you have friends? Everyone have friends.
• India
18 May 08
No, not every1 has frendz, so many people kill themselves due to loneliness. Some r busy making money, some busy having a family, some are busy in their own problems, and some also lose their frendz. I had two very good frendz, but i eventually lost contact with them. I am not in a position to make new frendz either. I dont go to college or somewhere where i can make frendz. So i say i dont have frendz...