Love and Money

Honestly I do not agree, If it takes money to be or feel romanced then the word is being misused. Romance is an action and it does not have to involve money. It can be words and thoughts that are carried out. My husband just called me last week from work and told me to hurry up and put the radio on 98.5 I scurried thinking something was wrong. When I found the station it was our wedding song. Now that is ROMANTIC. This is just an example, in my eyes money could never by love nor happiness. I wish for Love to stay for a lifetime but money you can lose the very next day. What has happened is that this world has gotten so materialistic that the finer things in life have been forgotten.

I'm not sure that someone's pockets have to be well-loaded but the income someone has, or the potential income they can have, do play a part in attraction. From a woman's perspective, what a man has accomplished, or plans to accomplish, and what he has already obtained say a lot about him. If he has no ambition he will not be as good a provider as someone who has plans and goals. If he spends every dime he earns as soon as he's paid he gives the impression of being irresponsible and single women are interested in security. Some of the single women I know have a check list of sorts that they use to evaluate a new man. He must have a job with a future or set goals. He must have a checking account which shows that he can handle money. He must have a vehicle, preferable one that he's making monthly payments on, which shows dependability. And, since I live in the south, he must be respectful towards his momma, which shows that he will be respectful to his wife.

In my heart i completely disagree with it. However there is part of my brain saying "That's true". Cause if people have money problems they do not focus on their relationships. Many marriages failed because of financial situation...