have you ever had a best friend?

Philippines
May 20, 2008 9:02am CST
Have you ever had a best friend? what was he/she like? can you describe him/her ? if you havent had any, what qualities are you looking for to even consider someone a possibility of becoming your bestfriend?
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12 responses
• Taiwan
14 Dec 08
its been 8 years since i had my bestfriend.its a big regret to me that i have taken him for granted..he always there for me, we jive in everything, a perfect relationship whom i was late to know.after then i never found one. i guess, i dont look or know what qualities shoul i consider.i just feel it right there//
@16031981 (449)
• Jamaica
21 May 08
i had a girlfren once which i called my best fren but in the end she stab me in the back. she actually wanted to get close to my husband we went classes together she came to my hous to do home work but i guess her mind was somewhere else i try nt to think of it because it hurts i noticed she started calling my husband regular and i question myself about it and ignore it at the same time eventualy i asked her if she had feelings for my husband she said yes i was bend my husband has good qualities good heart will help in every way he can so she got attached i warned her but she would listen. things got out of hand i did things that i am not proud of. i av a very bad temper which is something i am working on. some women out there would do anything and everything to save there marriage or relationship. i av gone through alot to let my marriage work for someone to between. thats why nowadays i rather keep male frens then women and alot of women will agree.
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
21 May 08
i guess the best friends that i have had are the ones you always hang out with when you are bored, especially when u have nothing better to do, and you try to do something crazy and weird together to occupy your boredom. and you dont care how you act in front of them because they r more like sisters rather than friends...so u can be as rude or crude in front of them and it doesnt matter...just messing around together...being natural and one's true self...
• Philippines
20 May 08
in highschool i have 5 best friends. i guess i call them my best friends because they are the persons that i always hang out with. they take me for what i am no questions ask. if i get mad of course they would understand that its my personality and if they would get mad i would still accept them. and we would talk all the time. one of my bestfriend goes way back with me. we me when i was in prep school and she in kinder 2, she is very soft in the way she talks and very soft in appearance also but she can be very mean when shes provoked. lol.. we were classmates from grade 1 -6 and also highschool. i met 2 of my other best friends in my elementary years. i think it was grade 5. both of them were neighbors and also studied in the same school before and we all instantly hit it off... one is shy and one is outgoing. and the other 2 i met during my freshman year in highschool... one is very intelligent and the other is smart also and is the youngest of the group. they are all smart and they all have different personalities but we all get along great. we havent seen each other in a while now but we do get to chat once in a while
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
20 May 08
yes i have..she is cool to hang out with,,stays besides you..sweet and kind!
@reshfath (37)
• India
21 May 08
ya i had two best friends in my life one was my childhood school friend who was so special 4 me n i missed her bec my parents changed my school,n other best friend m havin friendship with her is till now n will b forever,she is just like me she likes whatever i like i got attracted to each n everything she does n mainly the sharing of joy or sorrows i only feel better only after sharing everything with my best friend..........
@INGA832 (1114)
• Russian Federation
20 May 08
I'm lucky cause I have a best friend. I can tell her everything, can trust her and she is always there when I need her. We just support each other. She is the person I can completely rely on.
@p_vadla (1685)
• India
20 May 08
I had one 30 years ago.But we got separated due to differences. I broke. Since then I never had one as close as he was.
• India
20 May 08
I wanted to add this photo to the discussion.. bourne
• India
20 May 08
In general a best friend would be a person whom you can trust. He would be that one person who would be truthful to you in all situations. He wont be a person who would abet you into doing something bad. So my best friend would be a person who is himself rather than tryin to pretend to be someone else. I would like to have a real person as a friend rather than a person who pretends to be one, but talk behind my back. I have Five friends who would be called my best friends.. Buy I would describe only one as he defines them all. He is a very spontaneous guy, good at computers and stuff. The thing that all like about him is his sense of humor. Straight forward with almost all the things that are told to him, he would be a real surprise to anyone.. Almost all my friends like him because its fn being around him.. bourne
• Philippines
20 May 08
I have a cute bestfriend. She's my bestfriend since highschool. I like her because she's sweet and caring. She's a true and loyal bestfriend also. Even if we are now miles apart, she always remember me, text me or call me sometimes on the phone. She's the friend i ever had. I love my bestfriend so much. :D
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
20 May 08
I have a bestfriend even tho at this moment we have lost contact. She was understanding always there when I have problem. She always encourage me. We met in 1998 while working at the same place. At this moment I miss here. Presently she is in the U.S.A. Having a bestfriend is very good.