What would u choose love or family?

Taiwan
May 21, 2008 3:50am CST
If u had a relationship with someone, and ur family does'nt like him/her,waht would you do?Its really hard to choose coz you both love 'em..Will u give up pr fight for it!!?
4 responses
@micajazz (77)
• Philippines
27 May 08
i think it really depend on the situation. although its really hard to choose from your family and your love ones. If you think that there no valild reason why they hate your man, I think you should fight for him, maybe sooner or later your family understands you and support your decision. Just give them enough time to know your man better. good luck to your love life.
• India
21 May 08
you didn't start a relationship by seeking approval from your family so you shouldn't give up on it just because your family don't approve of your partner.rather the solution is to seek their approval for your choice and make them realize why you like your partner.families have no problems with our choices ,they are just over cautious whether the choice we have made is right or wrong.so ask them about the reasons for their disapproval and try to make those things clear to them and m sure they'll agree!
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
21 May 08
Hi there shebon! I used to have a relationship like that and thankfully, it did not work out. Back then, I was ready to fight for it but since I am in love, I cannot see his flaws. Thankfully, my family was there to protect me when I'm not able to protect myself and that taught me a really great lesson that you're family never want anything that will hurt you. I they are hurting you with what they are doing, that is to prevent you from experiencing a greater pain than what they are making you feel. I think that applies to most family. There will always be some exceptions but I am thankful that mine isn't one of those exceptions.
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
21 May 08
We have different definition how important the family is and also love ones..For me, it depends how i really love the person is..i can't tell by now..but i will fight for him if i really love the guy..sooner or later they will understand what i did that..just give you family a time to accept your man..and of course he has to do something about it..I know he know that your family doesn't like him..Just impress your family,court them..and we'll see if something happens new.. Goodluck!!