Do guys really not like fat chicks?

@Bijou1 (160)
Australia
May 21, 2008 7:23am CST
Or do they secretly like them but are too embarrased to admit it infront of their friends because they are worried about reactions? So i'm a girl & if i were a lesbian i would prefer a curvy chick over a skinny chick. I think curves are more attractive than bones.
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6 responses
• Southend-On-Sea, England
21 May 08
I suppose it depends on the individual guy, but in my own experience, most of them prefer a curvy figure to a bag of skin & bones. I think women who get caught up in losing too much weight have blinked and missed the plot - ultimately they're doing it I think because other women say so, not men. I don't think men are anywhere near as fussy or prejudiced about looks as women are.
@Bijou1 (160)
• Australia
21 May 08
Thats true. Girls ultimately are trying to impress other girls.
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• Southend-On-Sea, England
21 May 08
That's how I see it. God knows why, too. I don't know why people can't just be themselves, for the genuine people will love us however we are....thin, fat, black, white, yellow, gay, straight, intelligent, stupid.....whatever.....anything! Thanks for replying and have a good day. :-)
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• Southend-On-Sea, England
2 Jun 08
sorry I'm not sure how the ranking works....I've read about it in the instructions/info, but I don't really understand it. maybe someone else could help? thanks for your reply :-)
@paid2write (5201)
21 May 08
I think some men like thin girls and others prefer curves. I don't know why they should feel embarrased to admit it. What I find funny is that actresses and female celebrities are so concerned about their weight they diet and exercise like mad so they don't have a spare ounce of fat on them, then they have to have a boob job because they have no curves and have a figure like a boy. If they ate normally and stayed healthy they would not need to have artificial boobs, they would have lovely round natural ones. I think any man would rather hold a natural woman in his arms than one full of silicone!
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• United States
20 Jun 10
i do not like girls with "curves" its either my girl is skinny or no girl at all. plain and simple and that is the way most guys think they just wont tell girls that. look at the facts girls, have you ever, honestly, seen a really big girl with a normal sized guy? no! and like 60% are normal sized guys. so dont eat that rice crispy bar at like 2 am, go run in the afternoon, play a sport, or be active, and you wouldn't even be looking at this question to find out if a skinny boy will like you. and no big boobs are not the same as being fat, for some of you girls out there.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
21 May 08
I guess there are all kinds of people and while the current stereotype is for attractive girls to be reed thin, it was not always so. People used to like girls with rounded curves. Just check out the famous paintings of years ago. Check out the curves of voluptuous women in those paintings.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
23 May 08
my husband always said that there was more of me to love and at that time I weighed about 145 so I was curvy but he liked me that way. I think a lot of men'prefer women who are not rail thin but have curves and I did try to stay within a healthy weight.
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@Raeyden (46)
• Singapore
21 May 08
I agree with you!! I prefer curves than bones... Fats chicks are much better to hug than boney gals..(im a gal anyway) They are like teddy bears.. haha! i love to hug my chibby friends =)
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
26 May 08
it depends on the boy !! many many men like bigger girls . i suppose many boys in hs have been attracted to them but were too shy or worried what other people would think and that is sad .
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