Why do married men have affairs
May 22, 2008 8:54am CST
This is a very old topic but in the society we live in today so many wifes want to know WHY? Why did my life come crushing down after I had everything to live for. How can i ever trust another man again?
• South Africa
22 May 08
I think i have put you under the wrong impression and i am sorry for it... But it is not my husband who is cheating on me... It is my friends husband and i will really appreciate it if anyone can give me advise on how i can get her trusting guys again. She is really down in the dumps and as you are such an expert in pointing out mistakes, why do you guys do that. Hurting the woman you love.
• United States
22 May 08
Men cheat for many reasons so there is no one answer to your question. Some men are unhappy because there are problems in the relationship and some men are just dogs who chase after any woman who looks at them. As far as trusting a man again, you need to give yourself time to heal and to rebuild your self esteem, which has been damaged by this experience. When you do meet someone who interests you in the future take it slow and get to know the real man, not just the public man. If he's someone trustworthy you will be able to tell and then you should be able to trust him, too.