Why do married men have affairs

South Africa
May 22, 2008 8:54am CST
This is a very old topic but in the society we live in today so many wifes want to know WHY? Why did my life come crushing down after I had everything to live for. How can i ever trust another man again?
3 responses
wingman24
@wingman24 (33)
• South Africa
22 May 08
You trusted us guys.....FIRST mistake.... We all dogs, me myself a pit bull!!!! LOl no, i feel for you...its so wrong
muskiet80
@muskiet80 (7)
• South Africa
22 May 08
I think i have put you under the wrong impression and i am sorry for it... But it is not my husband who is cheating on me... It is my friends husband and i will really appreciate it if anyone can give me advise on how i can get her trusting guys again. She is really down in the dumps and as you are such an expert in pointing out mistakes, why do you guys do that. Hurting the woman you love.
wingman24
@wingman24 (33)
• South Africa
22 May 08
SO ... ur friend is single then...yiippeee.... Whats her number, email address....contact info....
wingman24
@wingman24 (33)
• South Africa
22 May 08
Unless u are interested!!!!! I see the way u look at me!!!
Ifamous
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
21 May 10
some men blamed women because they can't make man's life more entertain. they bored to us then looking for another fresh girl
spalladino
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
22 May 08
Men cheat for many reasons so there is no one answer to your question. Some men are unhappy because there are problems in the relationship and some men are just dogs who chase after any woman who looks at them. As far as trusting a man again, you need to give yourself time to heal and to rebuild your self esteem, which has been damaged by this experience. When you do meet someone who interests you in the future take it slow and get to know the real man, not just the public man. If he's someone trustworthy you will be able to tell and then you should be able to trust him, too.