Do you think i should be much more independent?

@landi927 (657)
China
May 23, 2008 4:09am CST
My boyfriend went back to his hometown today. We live together for about a year! He often go back to his parents, about ones in a month. When he is not here, i feel very lonely and miss him very much. I even think that i cannot go on my normal life without him. Do you think i rely on my boyfriend too much and i should be much more independent???
2 responses
@anetteh (3591)
• Sweden
23 May 08
Yes, my answer is yes. You should not let your boyfriend be the only companionship for you. It is important to be independent and see your friends beside your boyfriend, boyfriends come and goes so you should not let them be the only thing in your life. Get out and have some hobbies, meet friends, family. Do something for your self.
@landi927 (657)
• China
23 May 08
I do have friends. And i have many hobbies. Also, i love my family and keep touch with them all the time. But it just...do you know that feeling, when my boyfriend is not here, I just like someone who has no energy at all. I am not spiritual to do anything...i don't know what's wrong about me..
@jyjnl_jia (430)
• China
23 May 08
It proves that you love your boyfriend very much.You care about him,and you feel that you depend on him in some aspects.However,i still think woman should be independent because it is very important for both of you.It can creat a environment of equality which is good to your marriage. Have fun.