Have you ever had a Difficult Ex?
May 23, 2008 1:45pm CST
I have a couple of difficult ex's in my life. Each is intent on harming me in one way or another. One isn't even mine, I acquired her through my marriage! I have become well acquainted with law enforcement and laws such as stalking and harassment. Have you had a difficult ex in your life? How did you deal with that person? Was it ever resolved?
• United States
23 May 08
If my ex didn't perceive me as being difficult or me perceiving him as difficult, we probably would still be together..lol. My ex is a controling person and even living two states away, he intimidates me. He cheated in our marriage, he filed for divorce, and HE got everything, also. We just went back to court for some modifications, and HE WON AGAIN in court. We got ONLY what legally required by the judge to give to us and anything beyond that which could be mitigated...HE won. He has to win...it doesn't matter what is in the best interest of the parties...if is something that has to do with me...he has to win. Luckily, I do not have to worry about abuse, stalking, etc. He has a prominent position in a "governmental" office in his home county. He would mostly certain lose his job, or at minimum get administrative leave, if there was even a hint of any of those types of things. Good luck to you!
23 May 08
My husband and I are happy to say that I don't have any difficult exes, or any exes at all. I was seeing someone before I met my husband, but that relationship never really got off the ground, and our parting was mutual, so I don't really consider the guy an ex, and even if he were an ex, he's really not that difficult. I know I am very lucky.