i am alone.. :'(

It is hard when people loose their trust in you. That is the problem with trust, it takes a lifetime to build up but only one quick "bad" action to loose. For your friends to trust you again, I think you will have to work really hard. You have to proove to them over and over again that you are trusting. Different people do also have different approach to this, maybe some of your friends will accept an apology whereas other ones you will have to fight for a long time to regain their trust. Some people might find your bad action to be so bad that there is nothing to you can do to ever regain the same trust, and then you will have to think about that! If you love your friends, I would suggest you start working on it immediately. First you should go talk to either one of them, sincerely apologize and say that you will do everything from now one to regain their trust. Then you have to start giving them evidence of that, with how you act! I am sure that if your friends love you, they will eventually see that you have changed and start regaining trust in you. Just remember that you were the one that broke the trust so you are the one that has to work to regain it!

Dexter, just apologize to them and asked for thier forgiveness. You must promised them you will not make the same mistake again. Then you just had to wait and hope they will forgive you. I am praying for the best here.

I think time can proves that you have changed, I would not belive a friend that hurted me badly and come to tell me that he/she have changed in a week and I have not seen any difference in her/him. Give them sometime and try to talk with them again

Every one can make mistake and tell your friends you didnt mean that,you love them.

That is really sad! : ) hope you can overcome that soon! Do not think too much. That real friendship will never be broken! let them know you still there and wait for them! Everything will be fine! : )

it goes like this : if you were in your friend's shoes, and he/she told someone else about your secrets, how would you feel? That's why it's a secret, it doesn't go beyond those closed doors..It's done and you can do something about it..If I were you, I'd go to my friend and tell him how sorry I am for what I've done..accept the consequences..ask him what I can do to make things right..If after that, he's still mad at me, I'll accept that..I believe that time heals all wounds..so, just don't do it again...

No problem, it is just a matter of time. If you have understood the faults in you, most likely is that your friends will get to understand that you have realized your mistakes, and will not leave you alone any more.

The best thing that can be said is learn from what you did move on with your life.. friends come and go it hpns!! my ex-best friend slept with my boy friend on my birthday you think I forgave them ughm no... so you going and telling ALL of their private talks shows they can not trust you.. just learn from what you did!!

Once we loose someones trust it is very very difficult to regain it. It is not easy. This will take a lot of time. Try and speak to one of your friends. Tell them you are sorry and you will not repeat the same thing again. If you manage to win one persons trust again then it will be easier to get in touch with your other friends too and make them trust you again!

You have learned a big lesson from this. We usually learn these things in the most painful way possible! You will probably have to make new friends and remember not to gossip. Have you told them you're sorry and didn't realize it would hurt them? If not, do it as soon as you can.

learn to be flexible, i am a serious person before almost all of my friends don't like my attitude, that is why i learn to change and be good to my friend. i always help them specially during exams, from now on i am not feeling alone in the school, thy are their for me specially if i have problem with my family.

Good news bro..I say that cos you have realised your mistake. I do not want to support you, nor your friends, but you have learnt a lesson that you should take very seriously because talking about somebody behind their backs is very bad and it was right of your friends to tell you to not talk to them. Although I have to agree that it's bad on their part for not giving you a second chance. Anyways, what's done is done. ALl you can hope for is that you do not repeat that mistake again. You would surely make new friends if you are going places, but make sure that you do not repeat this grave mistake again, not even for fun. Best of Luck.. Be Safe.. bourne

That's really sad Dexter. But give them some time to think. if they are really true friends then I'm sure they will forgive you.. forgive and forget...so they say.. and for you..it's kinda lesson to learn. And I think, you are not alone right now.. your co-mylotters are here...arent' they?.. :D ... Goodluck.

First you should have broken their trust. But we are humans and we all make mistakes. And every human should understand this thing. I think you should try to meet your friends directly (not by phone call) and tell them whatever happened , its not bad to tell sorry about what happened if you think you have done wrong. If they are not even ready to hear what you have to say then i think THEY ARE NOT YOUR REAL FRIENDS. A Good friend must be ready to hear what his friend has to say. Try making good friends who can understand your feelings. Best of luck.

dexterlab you are not alone here youhave mylotter friends who care. tell your friends you are only human and that human beings do make mistakes. I think you are being too hard on yourself. forgive youself first then ask your friends to forgive you for your mistake. If they are that unforgiving then maybe they were never your friends to start with because true friends can and do forgive each other. If so then you need to find some new friends.

your words.. "they think that i am like this and i will never change " indicates this isnt the first time youve betrayed yer friends and broken their trust. the difference is this time, theyve decided to stop being played the fool and trusting you. learn from this.. and dont do it to the next set of friends that come along. people can only be hurt so many times before they walk away without turning back.

Trust once destroyed is very difficult to gain back...very difficult but not impossible. The only way that I know is to show yourself trustworthy again and again, but remember, they will be looking for reasons not to trust you. It will be along and difficult road, which I would begin by saying I am sorry to my friends. Though they may not want to listen, it is still a beginning.