men

@ashly1979 (1376)
United States
May 25, 2008 12:07am CST
me and my boyfriend fights all the time when we start to go to bed he yells at me and said he does not have to go to bed and it upset me becaues i went him in there with me he said he wanted to sleep in the living room with out me i dont know why men do this LOL does anyone have any ideals
4 responses
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
28 May 08
I think he needs to find himself back at that time. He wants to be alone.
@ashly1979 (1376)
• United States
28 May 08
i agree with you aowaow me and my boyfriend as been we never fight before now i have know him for a about 5 years i guess i need to gave him his paces thanks for comment take care
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
29 May 08
Before this goes deeply applying, I suggest you to read books on how to understand a pure emotional of man and woman, along with the interaction each gender. I may suggest one, John Gray's Man, Woman and Relationship. He summarized his thick book of Mars and Venus version in this one. But if you want the complete one, then you may read the Mars and Venus version. There are many of them, but as well those are thick. Unless you have a time to read those, it will be better. This book is a pioneer before you read the other author's books.
@metschica25 (5409)
• United States
27 May 08
Men are men and sometimes they are moody too. I like when me and my fiance go to bed together and most times we do . There are sometimes I will go up and he says i will be there in a few mins , which wil turn into an hours . Now that bothers me so much . I will yell hey babe come on up and he will say okay okay I am busy . then a little fight will start hehe.
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@ashly1979 (1376)
• United States
27 May 08
thanks metschica for your response on men have a good night
25 May 08
men are just too complicated! it's his pride working on that situation...but if you feel being emotionally abused, just quit the relationship.
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@ashly1979 (1376)
• United States
25 May 08
thanks jannijanni i really love my boyfriend and dont want it to work out i dont know maybe it is something i am not doing right take care
@se7enthbird (8328)
• Philippines
29 May 08
me and my wife make sure that we settle our misunderstanding before the day ends. and i think that is a good gesture. i too sometimes is unpredictable and sometimes my wife is the one unpredictable, but that is only natural for we are only humans. but i think we should atleast be reasonable enough to talk it over before the day ends. why not talking to him about starting this matured way on how to handle misunderstanding.
@ashly1979 (1376)
• United States
29 May 08
i agree with you wife or hubby needs to talk sit down and talk to get alone take care