is being single fun or a pain????????

India
May 27, 2008 12:42am CST
well....some people just love being single...on their own...independent ..... what is your say? is being single fun or a pain? put in ur views....as well as experiences........ well for me....i am at a stage where i should be concentrating on my career....so i feel as of now...being single rox.....:D
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@heartsoul (311)
• China
27 May 08
I think it depends. As you said you are at a stage where you should concentrate on your career so you choose to be single. I think there are many people who have the similar experience as you. Some people may like to be single and they never consider marriage. Others may keep single for some reason. And still others are have to be single because lack of money or other things they can't marry at present.
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@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
27 May 08
I stayed single for 10 years after my divorce. I went back to school and concertrated on raising my girls. I then met a wonderful man and knew that i wanted to see him over the breakfast table every day for the rest of my life so we married (14yrs ago). Until i met him i was perfectly happy being single and even said that i DID NOT want to have to put up with a man making a mess in my house that i would have to clean up! So i loved being single until the right time to change.
@lovenluck (1068)
• India
27 May 08
Well a happy ending that what your life seems, We human are very hasty in jumping into a relationship ,we find a nice guy and within no time we jump into a relationship without knowing well each other and the outcome most of the time is divorce and broken relationships but when we wait for the right one It takes time but finally we do meet the person like in your case. After being single it took 10 years to get to a relationship again but i think the wait was worth it wasn't it?
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@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
27 May 08
Yes my marriage has turned out well and was worth the wait. My life is by no means perfect but i am satisified with it and happy to have been blessed with a good family.
@MGjhaud (23069)
• Philippines
28 May 08
I've been single for almost five years now and I'm lovin' it. Though there are days that you wish you have someone beside you but in my case it only happens for one day and I know I wouldn't want it the next day. hehehe.. Being single for me is fun generally because I get to flirt whenever and wherever I am. kidding. hahaha.. I guess being single is to be able to mov around without asking permission from your partner. You won't have to ask someone that you want to go there or you want to eat here. Of course you should have at least inform your partner right so you won't have misunderstandings because from experience, it happens..
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
30 May 08
being single is having freedom, being free, independent, doing what you want, when, where, why, how and with who..just enjoying life on your own until you meet someone you want to be with the rest of your life with.
@ml2blog (414)
• United States
30 May 08
Being single is a pain, especially on Valentine's Day. No one give you flower, chocolate, or a date. It only gives us bitter taste of it.
4 Jun 08
Well i use to love being single!!! It was fun, i had freedom ect ect. But now i am newly single i hate it, i miss having somebody i cared about there. I now realise that i think i am ready for a relationship and i really want one! however only if the right person comes along. So im trying to once again enjoy being single... and when the right person comes along ill enjoy being in a relationship. I think whethere or not it is pain or fun depends on the person, to be single you need confidence to get out there flirt and have some fun! if you dont have that then it will begin to get rather boring. Plus it depends why you are single... like if you want to be or not? =] xx
@rirbry (353)
• Malaysia
27 May 08
Is fun being single when you dont have to bother to tell him/ her where you wanna go, is fun when you dont have to thinking someone nagging you all the time, is fun when you dont have to budget to buy anything as present but its pain when you have to watch the movie alone, its pain when you have to walk around all by yourself, its pain when you dont have anyone to message or chat too and its pain when there is no one love you =0
• New Zealand
27 May 08
Hey there being single is fun you have more fun being single then with a partner a.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
27 May 08
Well, in my case being single is a choice. Now, I chose to be single. I don't look for someone either. If he comes, I will weigh the situation. If in the situation, there is 'spark' or 'chemistry' I might convince my mind. I will not talk to my heart, it always says 'yes'. My mind needs to awaken all senses. I had been hurt a lot and it will certainly take a while to heal the wound. I would say, it's a 50/50 percentage. Fifty percent I am happy being single because of independence and no commitment. Fifty percent pain because I feel I am no good that's why I am still single. Thats it. take care =)
@moudy242 (71)
• Egypt
27 May 08
I'm glad about being single..i get to do what i want whenever i want without worrying about anyone saying no or don't...when the right woman comes i will surely not worry about that because it won't matter..but as long s i feel i'm going to lose something means that the relationship isn't worth it
@vgja08 (12)
• Philippines
27 May 08
I believe it is not what your status if you are single or married. It depends on how content you are in your life. Some singles said they are happy because they have the freedom, but others said being single is lonely. Marrieds said is a taste of heaven being married and have a family, others said is a hell because of so many problems in a marriage. It always depends on the person where he/she rely her happiness, peace and fulfillment.The most important thing is at the end of your day you know you did not hurt anyone and make others smile, and that gave you inner peace.