Why men like to blame their wife?

@lieanat (1140)
Malaysia
May 27, 2008 8:58pm CST
Why so many men so irresponsible? They can flirt around with others behind their wife's back. Even if he's caught by his wife, why he blame on her and worst still, create nonsense excuse saying that the wife is also flirting with someone else? Why they can't just admit is their fault and ask forgiveness from wife or both cool down and discuss on the solution? Why they just push away those responsibility and blame the wife? Where is the first love he had for the wife?
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@vanities (11375)
• Davao, Philippines
30 May 08
i guess its because of their egos..when caught they dont want to be at fault and likes to blame it their wife in particular...and thats what makes them so unreasonable..they feel that they are superior on alll living things..how pity they can be if they are so depressed..
@lieanat (1140)
• Malaysia
30 May 08
I agree too. Some men are too ego to admit their faults! That's not fair to their wife!!! Thanks for your comment. Have a nice day.
• United States
28 May 08
I am not sure why men do that. It could be because they are embarrased. Not only because they got caught but also because they know they are wrong and they are trying to take the focus off of them.
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@lieanat (1140)
• Malaysia
28 May 08
Thanks for your comment here. I think they are just to ego to admit their own fault and yet uphold their selfish desire without caring for their wife! Have a nice day.
@ayessa (1586)
• Philippines
28 May 08
Hi lieanat! You are right to say that most of males are irresponsible. We can't changed that. They are born to be flirtitious and cheaters. That's one reason why I am very careful before to choose whom to marry. Of course we females don't want to be cheated. Most males blame their wives because they are weak. They know that they are at fault but they are afraid to admit the fact. They blame others because its on their personality.
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@lieanat (1140)
• Malaysia
28 May 08
Hi, ayessa, thanks for your support here. But we might offended someone saying i'm unjust. Anyway, we are same channel and we understand the scenario here. Have a nice day.
@heartsoul (311)
• China
28 May 08
I think your topic is unjust. The men you mentioned is just a part of all the male. Like these men you referred, many women also have such situation. I think you can't say it's the husband's fault or the wife's. Every family has some different difficulty itself. The solution only lies in the couple's together effort to overcome the hard situation.
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@lieanat (1140)
• Malaysia
28 May 08
Hi, heartsoul, I'm sorry if I'm unjust here. But my assumption was the man fault and irresponsible and blame the wife. I understand there are lots of possibility in such cases and i can't judge who's right or wrong. It's hard to tell the whole story here, so i skipped some part, so maybe that's why you misunderstood my discussion. Anyway, thanks for posting!