Are you cheating to your spouse or boyfriend?

Costa Rica
May 28, 2008 9:33pm CST
I would like to know why and how are you feeling about it. Are you loving two person at same time?
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9 responses
@Ravenladyj (22992)
• United States
29 May 08
I do love two men at the same time...my husband and my bf BUT I'm NOT cheating on either of them..How do I feel about it? Blessed...both my men are amazing, fabulous ppl and I cherish them both very deeply..
• Costa Rica
30 May 08
I guess both men don t know your feelings... If it is so, It doesn t feel you selfish?
@k1tten (2321)
• United States
29 May 08
I did when my partner and I first started out dating. I felt horrible about it and I still do. I'll never ever do it agian. I have my priorities strait and my partner means the world to me. I was stupid then and a lot was going on so it messed everything up. I'm glad she kept me though. I'm glad for that because I don't know what I'd do without her.
• Costa Rica
30 May 08
Do you think this is more common on youth unmarried people aged less 30 years?
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
25 Jan 13
This is a sensitive question. If anybody tells lie, then you cannot understand it. No, I am not loving two persons at present. I am not cheating my wife. Are you doing those rubbish activities?
• India
25 Jan 13
Hi friend, i am not interested in cheating my spouse, i wish to be loyal to my wife forever. I don't want to love multiple persons and don't give importance to the crush.. We must be loyal to our spouse through out the life to enjoy it in a good manner without any problems
@julyteen (13265)
• Davao, Philippines
20 Jan 13
Sometimes, not your intention to betray your partner but some woman show some motives that they want the man, similar can be apply to man also. In my case, I want to be faithful but the woman wanted me to have an affair with her so I didn't refuse
• Philippines
18 Jul 08
No I'm not cheating with my wife. I'm deeply religious and it somehow serves as a check and balance in my life as a married one. Besides I love my wife very much that such kind of thought doesnt come to my mind. And I'm hoping that it will stay that way for a long time.
@kezabelle (2985)
29 May 08
No and I never would, ive had someone cheat on me before and it hurt a lot I would rather walk away than cheat on him knowing how much it could potentially hurt him, I love him why on earth would I want to hurt him in such an awful way!
@lorelai (1560)
• Italy
29 May 08
I don't, I used to do it when I was younger but when you are young you don't know what you're doing and you don't realize what's important. It's not like I was deeply in love with every boyfriend I had so I had cheated on few of them, specially at the end of the relationship when I knew it was over or it was just matter of days when it would be over. Now I am with my boyfriend for more than 4 years already and I would never cheat on him. I love him really much and I respect him as a person and I respect his love for me and my love for him so to cheat on him would be just as to say its all fake. At least I see it that way. I don't wanna hurt him and it would hurt him if I cheated on him as it would hurt me if he cheated on me. I would really start doubting in his love for me. I know that some people love their partner or spouse so much that they forgive anything and some people love their spouse of partner but they do it anyway. For me it all about respect, I could never look my boyfriend in he eyes if I cheated on him and I am sure he'd notice some changes in me if I had done it. I have loved 2 boys just once in my life, it was several years ago and I had this boyfriend that I fall in love with, but he was far awayand he started behaving pretty strange, I thought he was cheating on me but he wasn't, just few years later have I found out that I was his first girlfriend and he didn't know how to tell that to his parents so he was hiding me from them, and as he was really close to his parents that was really difficult. Anyway, he went to work in London and sometimes I wouldnt see him for more that a month. I had this friend who was looking for a boyfriend and we were going out. So one night I met this great looking guy and we started talking, he was really nice and educated and a real gentelman. As I wasn't all that happy in my relationship, because I didn't actually know what was going on, I let myself go with this guy and we've spend a beautiful month together. He wasn't from my country so I knew he'd leave after that month. Now when I remember that month and this guy I just can't do it without a big smile on my face. Although I knew he'd leave I just couldnt help myself and I had really fallen in love with him, if he was from my country I think I would even wish him to be my husband for the rest of my life but as he lives really far away and we were both around 21-22 and had some more studies to do so we decided that this advanture would end when he leaves. I knew I was special to him too and he used to call me for each birthday untill a year ago. When my boyfriend came back from London, after this adventure, I just couldn't stop noticing all the little things I really didn't understand about him (that became much clearer to me when I found out that he was hiding me from his parents).I never told him I cheated on him and after few weeks I had left him. Somehow I don't consider that cheating although I knew it was but I really had feelings for both of them and I know that if this other boy didnt live so far away I would leave that boyfriend of mine right away and just continue the reletionship with the other guy but as I knew he was here for a short period I had just let the things to follow their natural course.
• Canada
29 May 08
I would never never neer EVER cheat on my husband!!! He would never ever cheat on me either. If two people love eachother enough, and I mean REALLY AND TRULY LOVE EACHOTHER, cheating is completely inumaginable!!!!!!